Hooking Up At The Mall
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I will give you some pointers though.
1) Be confident. The more confident you are in yourself the more confident the woman will be in you.
2) Have a swagger. Don't be a dick, but have a little bit of arrogance about you.
3) Put in the time. If you are pursuing someone who works at a retailer in the mall don't try to get everything the first time, put in some time in a non-creepy way (buy shit at the store when you know she's working).
4) Dress nice. Don't look like a bum, but don't show up in a suit and tie either.
But the most important pointer of all is to know when to move on.
1) Be confident. The more confident you are in yourself the more confident the woman will be in you.
2) Have a swagger. Don't be a dick, but have a little bit of arrogance about you.
3) Put in the time. If you are pursuing someone who works at a retailer in the mall don't try to get everything the first time, put in some time in a non-creepy way (buy shit at the store when you know she's working).
4) Dress nice. Don't look like a bum, but don't show up in a suit and tie either.
But the most important pointer of all is to know when to move on.
If you work at the mall, i bet its probably way easier to get all of the best local pussy. Like you are part of the zone, all you gotta do is set the grease at the entrance to your lairs and the willing closeted whores would just come in. I am only inferring this on the spot but this works for those who put in time at the workplace elsewhere.
HOWEVER do enlighten us from the customer's perspeftive because it honestly harf to tell because they come at you but you know its because they really want to sell you their stuff or the store products.
The closest i been, i say closest becaused i fucked up, was with coffee server/barista at a cafe. Mistakes where made, two hours later she was shagging a friend of mine on her car.
For those wondering how ifu, I asker if she liked food.(yes i used those exact same generic words) A really dumb question to which she got a good laugh, then my friend went into supreme cockbloking mode and did the magic by asking if she wanted to grab a something after her shift was over.
Major advise: try to be smooth but dont think with the other head
HOWEVER do enlighten us from the customer's perspeftive because it honestly harf to tell because they come at you but you know its because they really want to sell you their stuff or the store products.
The closest i been, i say closest becaused i fucked up, was with coffee server/barista at a cafe. Mistakes where made, two hours later she was shagging a friend of mine on her car.
For those wondering how ifu, I asker if she liked food.(yes i used those exact same generic words) A really dumb question to which she got a good laugh, then my friend went into supreme cockbloking mode and did the magic by asking if she wanted to grab a something after her shift was over.
Major advise: try to be smooth but dont think with the other head
if i worked at the mall (never happen) i would be hitting on lot of them. ya know lets get some coffee, i see you here a lot, where do you work, etc. etc. all it takes is some decent convo, nice smile and a good sense of humor. that's all you need. Being handsome doesn't hurt things. UPDATE: not gonna be roaming the malls alone anymore. Well maybe sometimes but no pick-ups. Got a beautiful gf now and a new baby! The cycle of life. P.S. i didnt meet her at the mall. ;-)
So, I am looking at the Roosevelt Field Mall right now. Thinking of the memories. When I toned down the wasteful spending on Roosevelt with a 25% (if that) success rate, I started taking clients to the mall. And , wow, December was the best at the mall.
There was the thick Salvadoran girl from the Verizon Store (when it was there). Fun girl. She was a transition girl, still had my foot in the scene on Roosevelt.
There was the slender bleach blonde Honduran from Mrs. Fields. Great sex. Loudest chick ever. I'd have dated her seriously but she was a bitch. She just wasn't nice.
And now, the mother of my two kids. Met her in December 2012. I won't give her up because she still works there! Man. How life has changed.
Off to the Hempstead stroll.! LoL
There was the thick Salvadoran girl from the Verizon Store (when it was there). Fun girl. She was a transition girl, still had my foot in the scene on Roosevelt.
There was the slender bleach blonde Honduran from Mrs. Fields. Great sex. Loudest chick ever. I'd have dated her seriously but she was a bitch. She just wasn't nice.
And now, the mother of my two kids. Met her in December 2012. I won't give her up because she still works there! Man. How life has changed.
Off to the Hempstead stroll.! LoL
So, I'm here. A few hours after the drama from earlier today. I'm sitting opposite Na Hoku, looking at Macy's sign. And I'm wondering: why do I have two kids, mortgage and wife?
Meeting women was never easier. Meeting women at the mall during the month of December is like taking candy from a baby.
1 - cute mid 20s girl at a shoe store , couldn't believe it, but got her number.
2 - real done up, make up heavy black girl in Macy's. Graduated HS in 2013. I joked about my age, spoke about my wife, still got her number.
3 - mid 40ish sort of milf Latina in a cheesy soap store called "lush". Well, scratch her off the list because she got creeped out when I pushed the envelop with the "touch of the elbow, Merry Christmas" routine.
But 2 numbers in 20 minutes? The 2nd one I might pursue. Heck, she knows I'm married and I still got her number. Maybe she needs a sugar daddy? I just need a blow job a week from someone else. Is that too much to ask?
Back out there shopping. Man, I miss being single. I was the happiest single guy. Guys under 40: stay single for as long as you can.
Meeting women was never easier. Meeting women at the mall during the month of December is like taking candy from a baby.
1 - cute mid 20s girl at a shoe store , couldn't believe it, but got her number.
2 - real done up, make up heavy black girl in Macy's. Graduated HS in 2013. I joked about my age, spoke about my wife, still got her number.
3 - mid 40ish sort of milf Latina in a cheesy soap store called "lush". Well, scratch her off the list because she got creeped out when I pushed the envelop with the "touch of the elbow, Merry Christmas" routine.
But 2 numbers in 20 minutes? The 2nd one I might pursue. Heck, she knows I'm married and I still got her number. Maybe she needs a sugar daddy? I just need a blow job a week from someone else. Is that too much to ask?
Back out there shopping. Man, I miss being single. I was the happiest single guy. Guys under 40: stay single for as long as you can.
This thread hasn’t seen any action in a while. We talked about this in the NP4P thread once but I want to concentrate specifically on malls.
During the pandemic I’ve slept with a handful of women who work at stores in malls and occasionally get lucky with one shopping. It is a numbers game, as well as it is an intuition one. As the years go by and people seem continue accepting online dating as the norm, the human element seems to still win if you have confidence, can strike the right word play in communication and not come off creepy (I also highly recommend The Game, which I’m sure many of you have read).
the best luck seems to be mon-wed mornings from 10-noon when the stores a quiet and you can really scope out the situation. In one instance a girl was 19 (oddly working at Forever 21) was she the best fuck? No but she was a tight body blonde who I would get blowjobs & fuck in the Mall Parking garage for a month. She was getting to attached so I had to cut it but there are plenty of women out there.
I may add I am in mid Mid-30s, I can still approach 18-25 girls and score one. For some of the veterans here 60+ I’m not so sure.
Anyway, I’m interested if anyone late 20-early 40s still has luck at Malls. They seem to me the best place to score women in the flesh that isn’t a bar, gym or workplace situation. I personally don’t like dating apps.
During the pandemic I’ve slept with a handful of women who work at stores in malls and occasionally get lucky with one shopping. It is a numbers game, as well as it is an intuition one. As the years go by and people seem continue accepting online dating as the norm, the human element seems to still win if you have confidence, can strike the right word play in communication and not come off creepy (I also highly recommend The Game, which I’m sure many of you have read).
the best luck seems to be mon-wed mornings from 10-noon when the stores a quiet and you can really scope out the situation. In one instance a girl was 19 (oddly working at Forever 21) was she the best fuck? No but she was a tight body blonde who I would get blowjobs & fuck in the Mall Parking garage for a month. She was getting to attached so I had to cut it but there are plenty of women out there.
I may add I am in mid Mid-30s, I can still approach 18-25 girls and score one. For some of the veterans here 60+ I’m not so sure.
Anyway, I’m interested if anyone late 20-early 40s still has luck at Malls. They seem to me the best place to score women in the flesh that isn’t a bar, gym or workplace situation. I personally don’t like dating apps.