Hobby satisfaction
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I spend a lot of my income on girls, working girls and non-working girls. Lately I have had somewhat of a decline in income and fortune, and I've had to ask: What do I want to cut down on? For instance: what do I prefer: one week at Four Seasons on Hawaii or 20-25 hours of sex? To me this is fairly simple: there are very few luxuries I prefer over sex. So it'll be a while before I cut down on sex.
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I spent more but enjoyed it less. I spent more than I used to because my financials got somewhat better. Most of the experiences were disappointing.
I've gotten weary of the struggle to get what I'd like to get out of the session versus the provider's desire to get all the money she can and give as little as possible back. I worry about the money I'm spending.
And it's not what I want, anyway. I wish I had a girlfriend and haven't got one. Hobbying is just the only way to get laid for me.
I spent more but enjoyed it less. I spent more than I used to because my financials got somewhat better. Most of the experiences were disappointing.
I've gotten weary of the struggle to get what I'd like to get out of the session versus the provider's desire to get all the money she can and give as little as possible back. I worry about the money I'm spending.
And it's not what I want, anyway. I wish I had a girlfriend and haven't got one. Hobbying is just the only way to get laid for me.
I've recently realized that if I spent as much money, time, and thought learning to meet and talk to women as I do hobbying, I would be doing pretty damn well. I'm very tall and a fairly decent looking guy, I just have crap social skills.
This realization has automatically made me much less happy with hobbying, regardless of what kind of quality I'm getting. Sort of like someone who suddenly realizes they're an alcoholic and doesn't enjoy drinking as much anymore.
I'm hoping that if I actually land a GF anytime soon, you all will be seeing much less of me.
This realization has automatically made me much less happy with hobbying, regardless of what kind of quality I'm getting. Sort of like someone who suddenly realizes they're an alcoholic and doesn't enjoy drinking as much anymore.
I'm hoping that if I actually land a GF anytime soon, you all will be seeing much less of me.
And my feelings haven't changed
I'm still enjoying it less, to the point I've pretty much stopped. I never would officially "retire;" I've seen too many guys do that and return within a week or two. But I don't know when I'll be actively seeking providers again. It could be tomorrow or never.
I've thought of going with strictly R&T places, 'cuz you know more what you'll get, but those are just about as expensive as full service. Strip bars are even worse.
You know what the truth is? Good sex is rare.
I'm still enjoying it less, to the point I've pretty much stopped. I never would officially "retire;" I've seen too many guys do that and return within a week or two. But I don't know when I'll be actively seeking providers again. It could be tomorrow or never.
I've thought of going with strictly R&T places, 'cuz you know more what you'll get, but those are just about as expensive as full service. Strip bars are even worse.
You know what the truth is? Good sex is rare.
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If that's to be believed, I don't know how it could possibly be true.
There certainly are many opportunities/women around.
The only limits have got to be self-imposed ones. I am not making any judgements here but I have met a lot of guys recently that feel that they don't have many choices. When I ask them to explain, it invariably leads to a decision they've made as to a specific TYPE of woman that doesn't appear to be available to them. The problem with this is that in NewYork, with the current populous and the international scene, woman from all over the country and in fact the world can be seen and approached daily if not weekly. Of course, some people just like to complain, but some of us need to get out more.
There certainly are many opportunities/women around.
The only limits have got to be self-imposed ones. I am not making any judgements here but I have met a lot of guys recently that feel that they don't have many choices. When I ask them to explain, it invariably leads to a decision they've made as to a specific TYPE of woman that doesn't appear to be available to them. The problem with this is that in NewYork, with the current populous and the international scene, woman from all over the country and in fact the world can be seen and approached daily if not weekly. Of course, some people just like to complain, but some of us need to get out more.
