Originally posted by jp1064
The one experience where I can honestly say it felt like a true GFE was when hugging a first time provider in the aftermath of my session, I "accidently on purpose" told her I loved her (it was just my emotion at the time.) because it felt so good being with her. She didn't even flinch at what I said. Now that was a GFE!
By "first time provider," do you mean
your first time with her, or her first time ever (big difference, after all)?
One would like to think that we all understand about that kind of "I love you" -- it's an expression of the moment, really meaning "I love this moment and how I feel right now and particularly how
you make me feel," right? But certainly, in this biz (and IRL, for that matter), you have to watch out, on both sides, about how it could be [mis]-interpreted; I've bitten my own tongue a few times. It's nice when things are so relaxed that, if you do let it slip, there's no flinching, or misunderstanding; you both "get it"...
So, did you see her again, ;-) ?