Generous gentleman vs cheap asshole

[MassyMan]

I've been both the generous gentleman and the cheap asshole.
When I find a provider who meets all my expectations with little to no negations, I tend to over tip. And I will repeat.
When I find a provider who insists on starting from a high number and begins adding all kinds of rules, it forces me into the role of cheap asshole. A few times I even walked away, because I felt the service would be very lacking.
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This!
When I am at Peter Lugers I will pay Peter Luger prices, when I am at a Taco Truck I will pay Taco Truck prices.

Being were talking about rotting Millie Rock…a majority of these motel circuit girls are SW quality or lower that guys seem to have no problem throwing 200 at for a quick release. If they dont mind paying up for lower quality who am I to judge? Its their money.

Also what man comes in here of all places judging others on what they do keep their marriages & lives sane? And how they choose to spend their disposable income?

For me this hobby is always about the thrill and the sexual addiction of exploring new women in every room that you can. There is also something about a shared brotherhood we all have here that adds a familial sense to the otherwise lone exploration of the acts themselves.
Kudos though to one of the better Coliseum titles in a while… now swing them big dicks.

 

[LorenzoDeMedici]

Your analysis is too simple and ignores the law of diminishing returns. The lesser amount of visits means the more you'll enjoy the next one since you will be hornier than you'd be if you went more often. And $100, $140? Show me a decent looking provider who will suck my dick for that. You can't. But if you went say one time a month then you can drop $400 or more on anyone of a number of young hot ones who will give true Gfe service for an hour and in the end that may be more satisfying than seeing some dog 3-4x a month for half hour .

You make too many assumtions:
1. It is only Your and Some other's perspective(ie. NOT Everyone's) that the lesser # of visits = the hornier you'll be so there is NO diminishing returns for SOME. eg. And who the fuck isn't horny at least a few times per day let alone per week ??
2. I've been with, & could still be with at least a 1/2 dozen Providers in the $100-$140 range that on any scale would be 6.5-9.5 depending on tastes. That the service would be a range between CBJ- BBJ & Complete GFE borderline Pornstar Service
And you miss the MAIN POINT
We All do/did this for a variety of reasons with a variety of purposes to suit a variety of types of pleasures.

 

[LorenzoDeMedici]

This!
When I am at Peter Lugers I will pay Peter Luger prices, when I am at a Taco Truck I will pay Taco Truck prices.


Kudos though to one of the better Coliseum titles in a while… now swing them big dicks.

LOVE the beginnning & the end of this post

 

[pokler]

You make too many assumtions:
1. It is only Your and Some other's perspective(ie. NOT Everyone's) that the lesser # of visits = the hornier you'll be so there is NO diminishing returns for SOME. eg. And who the fuck isn't horny at least a few times per day let alone per week ??
2. I've been with, & could still be with at least a 1/2 dozen Providers in the $100-$140 range that on any scale would be 6.5-9.5 depending on tastes. That the service would be a range between CBJ- BBJ & Complete GFE borderline Pornstar Service
And you miss the MAIN POINT
We All do/did this for a variety of reasons with a variety of purposes to suit a variety of types of pleasures.

1) I'm betting more than half of us would agree that if they were in the habit of say 4 blow jobs a month and had to go to 2 a month for whatever reason the marginal BJ in the 2 a month scenario is more satisfying than the 4 a month one

2 (a) I consider myself fortunate I don't have to resort to $100-$140 girls
(B) You are not addressing the time factor . Is the $ 100 session only a SS or HH?
Most of us place value on time like a full hour.

 

[billyS]

Some really good comments here, despite this being a Coliseum thread.

Posts 14 thru 17 and 21 particularly give a coherent answer to the question posed in the title.

@MassyMan , credit for the title goes to @rumlover who used it in his post in the AmP thread

 

[Uniquelyme]

Well, if you want the real answer...

Probably just the negotiation. She asked what I'd pay. I told her 140 which is what seemed to be the going rate at the place without haggling. She countered 160. I said okay, because I didn't really care. The other guy probably initially offered 100 and ended haggling it to 120.

Some here seem to care for that extra 40 and think that the only reason to pay more is if you think that it'll buy you something extra in the future or that we're trying to buy the affections by paying a bit more. To me, that's just very transactional. I just like to leave both sides happy after the negotiation. If an extra 40 is really something for you, perhaps this isn''t the best hobby for you.

It's not about money. I make decent money. It's about not overpaying. Not overpayjng for bbfs ,not overpaying for bbbj nor overpaying for a pro that isnt that attractive. I seen Women get reviewed i wouldn't even give them half of what the other guys gave em. No reason to be desperate and agree to silly prices that affect everyone moving forward.

 

[Colon ( | ) Colonel]

in my experience i find it doesnt matter how much you give them extra or how nice you are to them it wont help you out in the future or get you any special favors i actually find the more desperate and in need they are the better the service is. most of these girls are drugged out and depending on their condition that day you can get great service or it can be a complete waste. theres times ive given extra and got rushed out in like 15mins theres times i bargained down the price and stayed twice the amount of time and had alot of fun.

 

[billyS]

in my experience i find it doesnt matter how much you give them extra or how nice you are to them it wont help you out in the future or get you any special favors i actually find the more desperate and in need they are the better the service is. most of these girls are drugged out and depending on their condition that day you can get great service or it can be a complete waste. theres times ive given extra and got rushed out in like 15mins theres times i bargained down the price and stayed twice the amount of time and had alot of fun.

I think this is really more of a reflection on the type of girls you tend to visit.

 

[billyS]

It's not about money. I make decent money. It's about not overpaying. Not overpayjng for bbfs ,not overpaying for bbbj nor overpaying for a pro that isnt that attractive. I seen Women get reviewed i wouldn't even give them half of what the other guys gave em. No reason to be desperate and agree to silly prices that affect everyone moving forward.

Your perspective might be different than others because you do well in NPFP situations so you can be more selective when you do choose to pay someone for sex.
And since you can get a lot of these 'extras' in real life then it doesn't make sense for you to pay for them.

But as far as guys "ruining" it for you, well I guess that's just too bad because you can't have everything go your way.

 

[LorenzoDeMedici]

1) I'm betting more than half of us would agree that if they were in the habit of say 4 blow jobs a month and had to go to 2 a month for whatever reason the marginal BJ in the 2 a month scenario is more satisfying than the 4 a month one
2 (a) I consider myself fortunate I don't have to resort to $100-$140 girls
(B) You are not addressing the time factor . Is the $ 100 session only a SS or HH?
Most of us place value on time like a full hour.

1. Easy to say you'll bet on something if you've No way to proof it out
2. (a)Yes we all know how very special you are. Your manly prowess is unmatched, your wealth is unlimited, & of course you look like and have the virility a greek god.
I could Laugh & say I'm fortunate enough to ONLY have paid $140 for the quality you pay $320 for. But I won't.
Because when I've felt like it or the right situation presented itself I've also paid $320 and more
(B) You were the one who originally stated "And $100, $140? Show me a decent looking provider who will suck my dick for that. You can't. " ...You said nothing of time or other services. But regardless I said I could & Then some. So you decided to change the argument.
Last reply because no matter what logic I use, you are choosing to make this About You. When it's Not

 

[LorenzoDeMedici]

I feel like I'm talking to Ozzy??

 

[pokler]

I feel like I'm talking to Ozzy??

No Ozzy.. Just someone who understands the whole picture .
Don't get rattled so easy.
Take that as friendly advice.

 

[mugi]

1. Easy to say you'll bet on something if you've No way to proof it out
2. (a)Yes we all know how very special you are. Your manly prowess is unmatched, your wealth is unlimited, & of course you look like and have the virility a greek god.
I could Laugh & say I'm fortunate enough to ONLY have paid $140 for the quality you pay $320 for. But I won't.
Because when I've felt like it or the right situation presented itself I've also paid $320 and more
(B) You were the one who originally stated "And $100, $140? Show me a decent looking provider who will suck my dick for that. You can't. " ...You said nothing of time or other services. But regardless I said I could & Then some. So you decided to change the argument.
Last reply because no matter what logic I use, you are choosing to make this About You. When it's Not

But, some of these high-priced Manhattan spas are authentic “proper” service with well-screened young beautiful girls dedicated to their profession, with an obligation to the spa, the owner, the mamasan to give the customer exactly what he paid for. He is never short-timed nor short-changed nor given subpar service. It is nearly a guaranteed session.

I have not been to one of those in many decades, but I do remember the cleanliness, quality decor, and high level of effort and satisfaction, and her sense of duty, in fear of a bad report to the mamasan.

But, I never go to any high-end places. I love the obscure places on the wrong side of the tracks. And, I love, perchance, the fact that on any given session, I can elevate a cheap flop-house session and common pretty girl into as spectacular a session as the penthouse spa.

 

[MassyMan]

I love the obscure places on the wrong side of the tracks. And, I love, perchance, the fact that on any given session, I can elevate a cheap flop-house session and common pretty girl into as spectacular a session as the penthouse spa.

Yes! There is something to the danger of it. It doesn’t have to do with money. I enjoy the thrill.
Although for now I feel the street scene has been decaying some of my favorite monger moments have been in that realm. A unicorn moment - finding a fresh street girl who has slipped into the gutters of reality and sucked into the downward spiral. Driven by the fact that in her mind the only way to make money is the ancient way of selling her body sexually. Looking at the darkside of humanity in the face in a broken down neighborhood.

I remember about 7 years ago driving down Fulton just after Terrace before it hits Hilton at about 4am and seeing a two door sports car bothering a SW. However this SW was dressed in a nice silk slip dress, tight gym body brunette. The car speeds away with several college guys screaming things at her and I pull over & she seems upset. Border of tears.
At this point I thought She was kicked out of the car and asked if she wanted a ride… “yeah but I want to make some money”.
She was an 8 at any bar you would go to on a busy night. I couldn’t believe it.
A hot italian woman who was once a Northwell nurse that got addicted to pills… marriage fell apart, lost her daughter & here she was getting a cab to Hempstead at odd hours in the morning to score drugs.
It was a hot and wild session at the Capri & I was in disbelief that I picked up someone like this off the street. Remember her saying she would be going to rehab at the end of the month to try and get her life back. Never saw her again and hope she did…
Cost: $40 and the Capri room

moral of the story I don’t know why its always about price to some. That doesn’t ensure you are getting a good session. I am all for the girls like our wonderful Sophia Belle or Shy using this profession as a tool to generate wealth & its great seeing these type of women too.
However as weird as it seems I need to see the top and bottom as it makes me more connected to the human condition and circle the wheels of sexual dimensions.
The danger aspect is part of the dopamine blast and one that cannot be replicated by a high end girl, just as the danger aspect cannot replicate a high end girl.

 

[The_Seeker]

Didn't see this topic was moved into it's own thread. Since I sort of quick started the convo, I will add my two cents.
The original question wasn't to say one was a cheap/bargain hurt/bigg dick whipper vs generous man/sucker.
I understand why the original commenter got a little defensive as poster harp on the cost to value ratio with an encounter.
If I'm at an AMP and an employee offers a price that she's gotten from the last guy and I don't agree, I simple move on from the offered services. That's to say, what one pays doesn't effect me as I have a limit based on several factors.

I didn't bring it up from the point of view of a call to hold some invisible line of FS in the AMP market. The point was one guy payed 40 dollars less for the same services. Not to comment on if one over payed or under payed.
Of course you could pay McDonald's 15 dollars for a Big Mac but the next guy will pay the 6 listed and get the same burger.
Why not save the extra 9 dollars and get some fries, drink and an apple pie with that meal?

 

[Bricktop]

Yes! There is something to the danger of it. It doesn’t have to do with money. I enjoy the thrill.
Although for now I feel the street scene has been decaying some of my favorite monger moments have been in that realm. A unicorn moment - finding a fresh street girl who has slipped into the gutters of reality and sucked into the downward spiral. Driven by the fact that in her mind the only way to make money is the ancient way of selling her body sexually. Looking at the darkside of humanity in the face in a broken down neighborhood.

I remember about 7 years ago driving down Fulton just after Terrace before it hits Hilton at about 4am and seeing a two door sports car bothering a SW. However this SW was dressed in a nice silk slip dress, tight gym body brunette. The car speeds away with several college guys screaming things at her and I pull over & she seems upset. Border of tears.
At this point I thought She was kicked out of the car and asked if she wanted a ride… “yeah but I want to make some money”.
She was an 8 at any bar you would go to on a busy night. I couldn’t believe it.
A hot italian woman who was once a Northwell nurse that got addicted to pills… marriage fell apart, lost her daughter & here she was getting a cab to Hempstead at odd hours in the morning to score drugs.
It was a hot and wild session at the Capri & I was in disbelief that I picked up someone like this off the street. Remember her saying she would be going to rehab at the end of the month to try and get her life back. Never saw her again and hope she did…
Cost: $40 and the Capri room

moral of the story I don’t know why its always about price to some. That doesn’t ensure you are getting a good session. I am all for the girls like our wonderful Sophia Belle or Shy using this profession as a tool to generate wealth & its great seeing these type of women too.
However as weird as it seems I need to see the top and bottom as it makes me more connected to the human condition and circle the wheels of sexual dimensions.
The danger aspect is part of the dopamine blast and one that cannot be replicated by a high end girl, just as the danger aspect cannot replicate a high end girl.

Different kind of danger as all the high end girls want personal info. Fuck that.