All these shops vary in degrees of service so vastly. Very high-end shops in Manhattan and elsewhere are the exception because the girl is so well-paid, she is answerable to the management and responsible for a steady repeat customer flow. And even if she is not highly tipped, she still makes a bundle on every gig. She is required to give the customer what he is paying for in every respect and not cheat him on time because the customer is paying a high price. Now, if you hit it off with the honey, all the better. If you don't blend well with her well, because she is getting rich off of us, she won't let you know it. She bites the bullet and never bruises your ego and lets you leave feeling like you are a porn stud and the best she's ever had. But she is the consummate professional and her bank account is growing fast and she is counting the days until she gets out of the biz and dawns a new identity, changes countries and marries some poor fool and has a family and he never knew of her past or her bank account. She can do that because she has above average beauty, charm and smarts.
But in Flushing, it is different. You can have a great time if you and the girl blend nicely. And sometimes the girl is still very grateful to be making these easy bucks even though they don't match Manhattan prices because she is still doing extremely well compared to China salaries. But management can't properly screen these girls, nor do they care. They are not interested in high-level service. They are more interested in getting you in and out without being arrested. And if the girl made you cum, well she did her job. The fact that you had a grand experience to write home about or whether it was an average dump, one step above masturbation is not their problem. Management has to keep their place staffed and most of these girls are fly-by-nights. Each girl is one customer away from quitting and going next door to where the proverbial grass-is-greener-on-the-other-side and the customers are so-called better. (even though we all know it is exactly the same customer base.
It is luck-of-the-draw until you meet a girl you like and you get her number and hang on to her because she can tolerate you well or even "like" you and possibly even love your brand of lovemaking and the way you make her feel.
Hey, you are dealing with personalities. You are not buying an inanimate object that works the same all the time, exactly, robotically.
I have been at both ends of the spectrum. I have been to places, had a great time and leave with the girl at her insistence and go out for a bite to eat hand-in-hand and it turns into a real-deal friendship. Maybe your astrological signs match or your organs of procreation are a perfect fit. Maybe there is just attraction. I have had some where I loved them like a girlfriend. others, where I loved them like a wife. Others where I became a loving protective father and some where the activities were wild and jungle-like and still others where she nurtured me like my mama. And of course on the other extreme, I have had them bolt out the back door leaving me light in the pocket and with my gun still loaded.
Hey, you get smarter as the years go by and try to trust your intuition when picking a partner. I hate to go into the Bible in this forum but I will. "Judge ye not according to appearances, but judge ye by righteous judgement." Simply put, listen to your heart when you see "the line-up" You can't always pick what is best for you by mere appearance. These girls are masters of disguise. Surgeries, makeup, fake smiles, dyed hair, push-up bras, girdles, flashy clothes, fragrances. These devices are a camouflage that blind our judgement. You must listen to your intuition to guide you to the one who will give you the most fulfilling experience. Because you are not there merely to relieve an urge. It is ultimately a huge celebration of two human-beings of the opposite sex performing this incredible act of union. It should be highly fulfilling in the moment and remain in memory as a positive and uplifting experience.
I mean every monger has his own "little black book," his "harem." And in his mind he knows who to go to according to his needs at the time. And he knows pretty much what to expect. And for the times when the monger needs a totally new experience outside of his "harem," he ventures outward knowing full well that there is no guarantee.
Sometimes, you might find in the first few moments that the one you are paired with is not your ideally suited companion and you have to make quick adjustments in your own personality to adapt to her ways to accommodate her personality lest this experience become one that you might regret. Minimize your losses. Because you are willing to mold around her personality, you might be delightfully surprised that you end up having a really good time.
Thank you, Vertigo, for your new contribution and thank you, BigHard for your massive amounts of contributions that helps us all out. It is all very much appreciated.