Fetlife

Waterclone

Waterclone

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#1
#1
A thread to discuss the social network for kinky people.

I'll start with this... It's a shit site for online dating. Girls get a million assholes DMing them trying to be Dom's. Ordering them around and shit, before even establishing a communication. Most girls I know have given up on reading messages from unknown people. People post personal ads, but generally, I only use the site for the events page, which has everything going on in the area. It's amazing.

Also, the groups (forums) can be good for discussing issues, but they tend to get swamped with people posting personal ads.
 
Waterclone

Waterclone

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#3
#3
Regarding preaching UG to the Fetlifers... Most people on Fetlife wouldn't care for UG. While some are escort friendly, Fetlife doesn't allow posts related to escorting and many of the people there are not looking for paid companionship. So, I don't know how much crossover there would be.

Sure, there are sex parties that guy pay to get into. But the girls at these parties are not professionals. Or, if they are, it's hush hush. The party host is sponsoring them, and the guys attending don't know that they are getting paid.

As for events, there are so many of them, it wouldn't make sense to post them here. If guys here are in to kink, they can certainly join that site themselves. But I think, as an advertiser, you could certainly post the events that you were attending. Or you could bring up an event as a matter of conversation if you think it would be interesting and relevant.
 
priapist

priapist

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#11
Sophia Belle said:
@Waterclone

What about like a swingers thing??? Like an All out fuck fest? Any of that?
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An LTR GF seduced me into the swing scene back in the 2000's.
We did four-to-moresomes & clusterflux clubs.
For my birthday she seduced and passed me a 20-something JAV star.
This gift was paid by GF blowing JAV's unsexy Yankee husband - GF TOFTT!
I miss all that great excitement; but not GF; she proved 'untrustworthy'.
Who woulda thought?
 
Waterclone

Waterclone

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#12
#12
Sophia Belle said:
@Waterclone

What about like a swingers thing??? Like an All out fuck fest? Any of that?
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The swinger events that I've attended have varied. Usually the couples that come are looking a girl (or many girls) to play with, or another couple to swap with. Not full on fuck fests. However, sometimes there is a girl (alone or with her partner) looking for a lot of guys to party with.

There are events that are more "all out fuck fests". There is a club in midtown called Decadence that has a Thursday night "group play" party that is intended for people who like playing in group. 3, 4, 5, 10... whatever. That club also has a Saturday night orgy. Thereare every other week, I believe.

The difference between Thursday and Saturday, as I understand it (I haven't been to the Saturday party) is that the Thursday party has several beds that people can form their own groups on. The Saturday orgy pushes all the beds together into 1 massive bed.
 
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boneengineer

#13
#13
There was a guy that just passed away a year or two back, that was huge into the fetish and swinger scene. Meet him 10 years back when me and my ex would go to his parties. . they were crazy fun!!! He had a club for a CPL of years on the West side that had a massive pit filled with mattresses. Ahhh good times!!!
 
Sophia Belle

Sophia Belle

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#14
#14
Waterclone said:
The swinger events that I've attended have varied. Usually the couples that come are looking a girl (or many girls) to play with, or another couple to swap with. Not full on fuck fests. However, sometimes there is a girl (alone or with her partner) looking for a lot of guys to party with.

There are events that are more "all out fuck fests". There is a club in midtown called Decadence that has a Thursday night "group play" party that is intended for people who like playing in group. 3, 4, 5, 10... whatever. That club also has a Saturday night orgy. Thereare every other week, I believe.

The difference between Thursday and Saturday, as I understand it (I haven't been to the Saturday party) is that the Thursday party has several beds that people can form their own groups on. The Saturday orgy pushes all the beds together into 1 massive bed.
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Group play anyone??!!
 
Waterclone

Waterclone

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#15
boneengineer said:
There was a guy that just passed away a year or two back, that was huge into the fetish and swinger scene. Meet him 10 years back when me and my ex would go to his parties. . they were crazy fun!!! He had a club for a CPL of years on the West side that had a massive pit filled with mattresses. Ahhh good times!!!
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If I'm not mistaken, you are describing the late owner of Decadence, the club to which I was referring. I never met him. He was already sick when I started going.

His widow now runs the place.
 
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boneengineer

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Waterclone said:
If I'm not mistaken, you are describing the late owner of Decadence, the club to which I was referring. I never met him. He was already sick when I started going.

His widow now runs the place.
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Yes that was Saul ... He was a legend in the lifestyle. Went to a party at his house a few years back. He has all sorts of crazy games to get people naked. Strip pool was one of them. He of course wore 5 layers of clothes lol
 
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