Re: Do you ever hear from Lisa, DQ?
Originally posted by backdoor_man Now a year has gone by, can you deal with it better? How's the sportin' life?
Well, backdoor, thanks for asking. It’s actually been more than a year-and-a-half since I’ve last heard from Lisa. As I wrote earlier in this thread, on July 22, 2002, I still don’t expect to ever hear from her again. Of course, I’d be dishonest unless I admitted that if she ever did get in touch again, I’d see her again in a heartbeat. Over the last 20 months, I’ve become convinced that she was not only married (as she had admitted to me) but also most likely has kids, too. Her “excursions” to NYC every 5-8 weeks must have been her way of adding excitement to an otherwise very conventional suburban lifestyle, along with a substantial cash infusion for her otherwise marginal business. Of course, these conclusions aren’t based on any further evidence, since I don’t have any. They just seem to make sense of the facts that I do have.
I have noticed that her visits to NYC have dropped in frequency. Eighteen months ago she was coming to NYC once every 5-8 weeks, but these days it’s more like once every 4-6 months. Perhaps her conventional business has picked up, or changed in some fundamental way, or perhaps the wear-and-tear of her double life is becoming more difficult for her to manage. After all, she is now just past her 37th birthday, and has been doing her excursions to NYC for at least four years. For all I know, she may have also been making excursions to other places, too.
As I wrote back in July 2002, I’m pretty sure I don’t really know Lisa. I feel certain she lied to me in many ways, so that she could project onto me the person she wanted me to see. But, I remain convinced that the sexual chemistry between us was very real. Lisa is beautiful, and has the body type I find the most appealing. She (or at least the person she projected herself to be) is witty, warm, intelligent, and friendly. The sex we had was the best sex I ever had. The best sessions I have had with great providers, and the best sex I have ever had in non-commercial settings, don’t even come close to what I experienced with Lisa. The expression “ATF” was made for these memories.
Life goes on. Business continues to grow strongly. My health is good. I continue to have fun playing tennis with friends. My wife and I separated for a brief period after our youngest went off to college a bit more than a year ago. We’re back together now. Our life together improved for a while, but is now back to the same way it was when I first met Lisa. I’ve continued to visit providers on an infrequent basis, mostly at the upper end of the price structure. Diamond of KW is a lovely and skilled provider, for example. I saw her twice on her visits to NYC in the past couple of months. I also had a terrific session on a business trip to Florida last Spring with Xena of Florida, who I think may now be retired. And, I had a couple of disappointing sessions with 2 very beautiful agency girls, “Sonya” from Fleur de Elite, and “Valerie” from another agency that has more recently ripped off ug for the cost of banner advertising.