Like anything else in life, an "encounter with a lady" is a brief, temporal, fleeting experience. (And money, too. It comes and goes)
As a young boy I went to an Asian (Korean) house and I didn't even know the adult parlance for fucking or screwing was called "making love." So, the woman close to twice my age said to me "you wanna makey love?" I remember thinking how strange a term. What does it mean to "make love."
I analyzed the term and it still made no sense to me at all, a kid, barely out of teenage years, taking all things literally. I mean "fuck" and "screw" meant exactly what they were but "makey love," what???? It was like, I came here to fuck, not to "makey love." It almost sounded disgusting.
But then I examined the term and it made sense that "love" or "sex" was not a reality until you "make" it or "create" it.
For me, it opened a new window. I used to "grind, fuck, screw" my girlfriend but, no, I never "made love." I never started from scratch and actually created a loving sexual experience. That was a very adult and mature way of viewing "fucking." It was a turn-off, something that old Christian married couples did when everybody else was asleep.
But, anyway, if the experience was not fulfilling in the past, you have this chance to go there and "make," "create" this experience. It does not exist until you make it. It is a blank canvass.
IMHO, it does not matter your usual style, whether you are more prone to getting right into it, something more akin to "fucking" or a more elaborate display of "making love," but it is still your creation. You can still be laid back and allow things to unfold quite naturally, but that is your choice also.
I am just saying, there ain't nothing in that room except a girl and it is up to you, the paying customer to decide and be very creative about how to handle this situation to derive great meaning and satisfaction for yourself, for your dollar.
She (in this case, the Asian) might have her cultural and personal idiosyncrasies that must be taken into consideration, but in my experience, they are quite pliable and will yield to your desires, allowing you to "make love" or "make fuck" or to find a way to satisfy the reason for your being there in the first place.
Of course, there is always a "bad apple," a dud, some whore who wants your money and is unwilling to perform as expected. But, as a culture, prostitution is more built into Asian society than any other society that I know of and it is known as a "service" business minus the western taboos, so as a culture I find that overwhelmingly they perform admirably and the price is below market quite often.
As a young boy I went to an Asian (Korean) house and I didn't even know the adult parlance for fucking or screwing was called "making love." So, the woman close to twice my age said to me "you wanna makey love?" I remember thinking how strange a term. What does it mean to "make love."
I analyzed the term and it still made no sense to me at all, a kid, barely out of teenage years, taking all things literally. I mean "fuck" and "screw" meant exactly what they were but "makey love," what???? It was like, I came here to fuck, not to "makey love." It almost sounded disgusting.
But then I examined the term and it made sense that "love" or "sex" was not a reality until you "make" it or "create" it.
For me, it opened a new window. I used to "grind, fuck, screw" my girlfriend but, no, I never "made love." I never started from scratch and actually created a loving sexual experience. That was a very adult and mature way of viewing "fucking." It was a turn-off, something that old Christian married couples did when everybody else was asleep.
But, anyway, if the experience was not fulfilling in the past, you have this chance to go there and "make," "create" this experience. It does not exist until you make it. It is a blank canvass.
IMHO, it does not matter your usual style, whether you are more prone to getting right into it, something more akin to "fucking" or a more elaborate display of "making love," but it is still your creation. You can still be laid back and allow things to unfold quite naturally, but that is your choice also.
I am just saying, there ain't nothing in that room except a girl and it is up to you, the paying customer to decide and be very creative about how to handle this situation to derive great meaning and satisfaction for yourself, for your dollar.
She (in this case, the Asian) might have her cultural and personal idiosyncrasies that must be taken into consideration, but in my experience, they are quite pliable and will yield to your desires, allowing you to "make love" or "make fuck" or to find a way to satisfy the reason for your being there in the first place.
Of course, there is always a "bad apple," a dud, some whore who wants your money and is unwilling to perform as expected. But, as a culture, prostitution is more built into Asian society than any other society that I know of and it is known as a "service" business minus the western taboos, so as a culture I find that overwhelmingly they perform admirably and the price is below market quite often.
