So, I wanted to ask you dudes with more experience if I handled myself correctly today, or if I'm just inexperienced. I'm out of town in PHX, and I've sampled 2 providers with no issues already. I wanted to see a third, and this is what happened:
I found an ad on usual site. It looks like this chick has had multiple numbers, so she appears quite a few times. The # she is using now has very little traction in terms of reviews on the site. I texted 2 days ago, no answer, despite comments saying she replies quickly. I tried again today, and about 5 hours later she replies.
She's asks when, I am wide open and I want an hour. She says to come now. Then the questions start, about if I want 1 or 2 pops, $250 or $300. I'm not used to providers listing the dollar signs in text. She wants me to take a selfie with my pinky in the shot, and she sends me the same picture. She asks if I'm LE. I say no. She gives me address. I get ready to head out, 30 minutes. About 10 minutes later, she asks for ETA. I reply about 20 and ask her the same LE question. No answer.
I get close to hotel (it was a DoubleTree) and still nothing. I park in a strip mall next door and wait. 10 minutes pass and nothing. I'm wary and now I'm late, with no text asking where I am. I decide to leave. As I'm leaving, I see a cop car parked across from the strip mall, and see it as a sign.
On the way back, she finally texts and says "No I'm affiliated with law enforcement, you aren't either, right?" and now I'm freaked out by the omission of the word "not". I point it out to her and she's confused. 10 minutes later, she realizes what she said and days "my bad, I am not affiliated" but now I've wasted her time and she's gonna book someone else. I say I understand and apologize.
Now, here's what bothers me:
1. Ad with same name and pictures, but new number.
2. Direct talk of number of pops and $ in text.
3. Delay answering me and then the potential innocent mistake.
4. Phoenix PD has been conducting stings, as recently as last month, as I was nervously Googling while I was waiting.
5. It just didn't feel right, despite her being an absolute cutie.
So, am I at least somewhat justified in being freaked out? Or was this rookie nerves?
I found an ad on usual site. It looks like this chick has had multiple numbers, so she appears quite a few times. The # she is using now has very little traction in terms of reviews on the site. I texted 2 days ago, no answer, despite comments saying she replies quickly. I tried again today, and about 5 hours later she replies.
She's asks when, I am wide open and I want an hour. She says to come now. Then the questions start, about if I want 1 or 2 pops, $250 or $300. I'm not used to providers listing the dollar signs in text. She wants me to take a selfie with my pinky in the shot, and she sends me the same picture. She asks if I'm LE. I say no. She gives me address. I get ready to head out, 30 minutes. About 10 minutes later, she asks for ETA. I reply about 20 and ask her the same LE question. No answer.
I get close to hotel (it was a DoubleTree) and still nothing. I park in a strip mall next door and wait. 10 minutes pass and nothing. I'm wary and now I'm late, with no text asking where I am. I decide to leave. As I'm leaving, I see a cop car parked across from the strip mall, and see it as a sign.
On the way back, she finally texts and says "No I'm affiliated with law enforcement, you aren't either, right?" and now I'm freaked out by the omission of the word "not". I point it out to her and she's confused. 10 minutes later, she realizes what she said and days "my bad, I am not affiliated" but now I've wasted her time and she's gonna book someone else. I say I understand and apologize.
Now, here's what bothers me:
1. Ad with same name and pictures, but new number.
2. Direct talk of number of pops and $ in text.
3. Delay answering me and then the potential innocent mistake.
4. Phoenix PD has been conducting stings, as recently as last month, as I was nervously Googling while I was waiting.
5. It just didn't feel right, despite her being an absolute cutie.
So, am I at least somewhat justified in being freaked out? Or was this rookie nerves?
