CIM aka Cum in Mouth - Deal Breaker for you? Do most BBJ girls allow it?

[pokler]

It doesn't say that she doesn't allow bareback Greek with internal finish, either. So should people just assume "extras" means whatever they want?

Is extras the new GFE which means nothing because everyone is 100% certain their definition is the one that counts even though it conflicts with what everyone else thinks?

The issue is one of expectations. If you look all of your advertisers here which make up a good part if not the majority of " gfe" shops in the city the overwhelming vast majority of the girls at these places allow cim. Clearly the rule is cim and the exception are the few girls who don't allow.

So when I book a date with any of these places I am just expecting cim ..
If the girl I book just happens to be one of the exceptions then I'd like to know that in advance. I need my expectations adjusted.

So then how is it communicated to me ? I don't want to find out when I arrive and the girl tells me in the room when it's too late to walk and book another place. Hence my question of how is it disclosed. When you book Kayla does the phone girl tell you or text you no cim ?

 

[Slinky Bender]

Are you sure it's not self selection and not just the majority of girls who you see? Because I'm not really convinced that the majority of women allow CIM, or enough that not allowing us some sort of abnormality

 

[Jn2029]

The issue is one of expectations. If you look all of your advertisers here which make up a good part if not the majority of " gfe" shops in the city the overwhelming vast majority of the girls at these places allow cim. Clearly the rule is cim and the exception are the few girls who don't allow.

So when I book a date with any of these places I am just expecting cim ..
If the girl I book just happens to be one of the exceptions then I'd like to know that in advance. I need my expectations adjusted.

So then how is it communicated to me ? I don't want to find out when I arrive and the girl tells me in the room when it's too late to walk and book another place. Hence my question of how is it disclosed. When you book Kayla does the phone girl tell you or text you no cim ?

Im gonna be honest the lady at the front told me she was cool with it and I specifically asked about CIM. When I started she said no I don’t do that. I might have been a little harsh in my last message but yeah I’m glad I double checked too. Cuz yeah she said it was cool on the phone but the actual provider said “eww no”. Glad I was able to switch. They need to know these things ahead of time. Some guys are yeah cool with it but the ones not don’t wanna be surprised hallways through the session. You can fix that with a girlfriend, but not a provider.

 

[pokler]

Are you sure it's not self selection and not just the majority of girls who you see? Because I'm not really convinced that the majority of women allow CIM, or enough that not allowing us some sort of abnormality

I only see girls who are reviewed and cim is in the review. So yes self selection is certainly a factor. But I'll read maybe 10 reviews for each one I see. It's seldom that the reviewer says no cim. But who knows maybe that's the case and he just did not mention .

 

[pokler]

Im gonna be honest the lady at the front told me she was cool with it and I specifically asked about CIM. When I started she said no I don’t do that. I might have been a little harsh in my last message but yeah I’m glad I double checked too. Cuz yeah she said it was cool on the phone but the actual provider said “eww no”. Glad I was able to switch. They need to know these things ahead of time. Some guys are yeah cool with it but the ones not don’t wanna be surprised hallways through the session. You can fix that with a girlfriend, but not a provider.

I have a SB I've been seeing over a year who won't do cim. We solved the problem by me putting Saran Wrap over my dick so nothing gets in her mouth. The funny thing is at first she'd only rim me with the Saran Wrap on my butt but now she'll do it raw but for cim it's the wrap. She's is awesome at sucking dick so the wrap goes on only at the end when I am ready to pop.

 

[billyS]

I would say it's been about 50/50 when it comes to girls allowing CIM, and that includes civilians. If you only include woman I paid the ratio still doesn't change much.

It's very common for a girl as she is about to go down on me to say "but don't cum in my mouth" as she puts her mouth on my dick.

It's not really a deal breaker for me so I don't always ask about it before hand, which is why I guess I'll get the "okay but don't cum in my mouth" half the time.

Back when I actually did SW I don't ever remember a girl giving a bbbj that refused cim.

At AMPs I honestly don't ever remember a bbbj that ended in a HJ, although once or twice when the ending was in doubt a gentle hand on the top of the head conveyed my wishes.

 

[genius]

I would say it's been about 50/50 when it comes to girls allowing CIM, and that includes civilians. If you only include woman I paid the ratio still doesn't change much........

Ditto although my experiences with civilians was from 25 years ago.
Odd as it may seem I feel that sex with civilians is cheating on my SO but for pay not.
I had a SO for 7 years and even though we did swinging together actually said don't cheat on me although swinging when she was there and prostitutes are ok as long as she gets sex from me when she wanted it.

 

[Doctego]

I don’t have much experience with shops, as my experience is mainly with Indy and agency escorts. I’m also a huge fan of GFE. At no point do I expect CIM unless I’ve seen her before and she did it with me then. There’s always the YMMV factor. Is it a dealbreaker? No. I say all of this often experiencing condomitis and needing to finish via BBBJ. I’d prefer CIM, but that’s her choice and not an issue (all other things equal).

 

[billyS]

For me the CIM is preferred because of the continuity of the act, you don't have to switch and just keep going and enjoy the orgasm. At that point spit or swallow is irrelevant to me (unless of course she spits it on the floor or seat of my car).

I know from reading some guys posts here it's more of a power thing and adds to the excitement of the act, they think they are degrading the girl and it makes them feel superior. Conversely I think this is also why I think some girls deny it, because it degrades them.

 

[Buttlickr]

For me the CIM is preferred because of the continuity of the act, you don't have to switch and just keep going and enjoy the orgasm. At that point spit or swallow is irrelevant to me (unless of course she spits it on the floor or seat of my car).

I know from reading some guys posts here it's more of a power thing and adds to the excitement of the act, they think they are degrading the girl and it makes them feel superior. Conversely I think this is also why I think some girls deny it, because it degrades them.

My thoughts exactly-Swallow means nothing to me-In fact if the girl is holding it in her mouth, I tell her to go ahead and spit.

 

[billyS]

Sometimes it's a nice surprise if it wasn't discussed before hand. She blowing you and you are getting close and you aren't sure if she is going to pull off and remind you not to cum in her mouth but she keeps going. Makes the orgasm all that more intense in my opinion.

Or if it's someone you've been with before and she never did then all of the sudden she is on her knees in front of you and she just just keeps sucking, takes your load then just grins at you, maybe a little giggle as she wipes her mouth.

 

[steveoo1970]

I’m a CBJ guy first and foremost. But after seeing close to a thousand different girls over my life, I would say about 40-60 of them totally disregarded my request and went straight to bbj.

I’m my experience, a vast majority of them go for CIM. I’d say 80% . But…!! The vast majority of the girls who allow CIM don’t swallow…. So out of the hundreds of girls I’ve been with, only about 7-10 of them have swallowed my load… Even though I like to play it safe, I do get a chuckle out of the girls who don’t quit and don’t spit…..

 

[genius]

My SO said that she doesn't like the taste of cum so when she feels me start cumming she would position genius jr toward the back of her throat so I would squirt down her throat w/o it hitting her taste buds.

 

[Buttlickr]

Sometimes it's a nice surprise if it wasn't discussed before hand. She blowing you and you are getting close and you aren't sure if she is going to pull off and remind you not to cum in her mouth but she keeps going. Makes the orgasm all that more intense in my opinion.

Or if it's someone you've been with before and she never did then all of the sudden she is on her knees in front of you and she just just keeps sucking, takes your load then just grins at you, maybe a little giggle as she wipes her mouth.

How about the girls that try to give it back to you? That's been tried on me many many times w no success which means a a lot of you perverts take it back-lol

 

[Doctego]

Talk about karma…my preferred ending due to me loving oral and condomitis fucking me up more times than not is a BBJCIM finish. Not a dealbreaker as I said earlier, but that’s what I like. I saw a Dominican girl this morning and I’m pounding away. The clock is ticking and I ask if she can finish me with her mouth. She said sure, just don’t cum in my mouth. I appreciate the heads up so we can plan rather than her removing her mouth and running away while I jerk off on the floor. She pulled a chair over for me to sit on, she got on her knees, and she told me to look at her ass in the mirror. Her mouth was doing all types of dick gymnastics on my head while she had both hands working the shaft. I gave her the warning and she removed her mouth, but her hands kept doing their thing. Continuous stimulation and I pasted her tits.

 

[billyS]

How about the girls that try to give it back to you? That's been tried on me many many times w no success which means a a lot of you perverts take it back-lol

Are you talking about civilians or hookers?

I've never had either try that. Never. And I've had literally hundreds of bbbj cim over a nearly forty period.

I had a close gf dfk me after spitting out and my current SB will always DFK me immediately after a bbj that preps me for fs, but I don't care, it's my dick and I know it's clean. So guys back away from that and I know it pisses girls off.

 

[Buttlickr]

Are you talking about civilians or hookers?

I've never had either try that. Never. And I've had literally hundreds of bbbj cim over a nearly forty period.

I had a close gf dfk me after spitting out and my current SB will always DFK me immediately after a bbj that preps me for fs, but I don't care, it's my dick and I know it's clean. So guys back away from that and I know it pisses girls off.

Yuki at SDS tried it last time w me.

 

[billyS]

Yuki at SDS tried it last time w me.

Yeah that's disgusting because depending on what time of day that happened God knows how many other guys sperm was mixed in there. Reading all these amp reviews day after day I know these girls are cum buckets. Every hole.