if you never has sex with men, the statistical probability of acquiring HIV (even from a women with full blown symptomatic HIV/AIDS) is still nearly zero; the disease you are so fearful of and are dreading a HIV+ test, is in all probability the flu or a cold which depending on other factors, age/comorbidities/lifestyle choices/living arrangements, etc can be deadly.
HIV+ men having sex with men or with women is one of the modes of documented transmission into the heterosexual community (and even that only occurs because of bisexual men); intravenous drug use is the other method but again women passing it to women or men hasn't been documented as source of transmission in over 60 years of research now.