I am totally opposite of this thread and posts my anxiety at cumming makes it hard to finish in the allotted time given. This can cause frustration to both parties involved. Now I try my best to relax so I can thoroughly enjoy myself and not make the provider have to work too hard. A wiseman once told me most of these women do this line of work because they don’t want to work too hard like they would have to at a real job so do not make them feel like they are doing “work” whenever they are with you and it makes things smoother and flow better. In my earlier experiences of hobbying I used to try and rub one out before I went to “last” longer and it worked but almost too well because by the time I was in a session with a lady it would take too long to finish and they would get annoyed really fast these days it’s all good you live and you learn and now I go to visit women without previously doing anything so I can enjoy and shorten the stay to the allotted time not trying to be a pornstar or young buck anymore getting the same services as most men lasting a “regular” amount of time not expecting too many extras or special treatment in sessions. One pop and some not two long drawn out pops making the women “work” too hard no pun intended lmao!