After holding back, anyone have trouble finishing?

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Scamper

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......I had to stop myself from cumming several times. Occasionally when I do that, I wind up having trouble finishing. Anyone have that happen !?
 
billyS

billyS

Reign of Terror
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Scamper said:
......I had to stop myself from cumming several times. Occasionally when I do that, I wind up having trouble finishing. Anyone have that happen !?
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Yeah I've had that happen. I'll use the *squeeze method to stop and I'll loose the sensation to cum but then five minutes later my dick seems to loose interest. With me I was thinking it's an age thing.

Usually if she has already cum I just let it go and recharge for round two and blow a bigger load in her later, otherwise it's nothing a quick bbbj to get harder can't fix.

*By squeeze I mean the pelvic muscles, not pulling it out and manually squeezing the penis right under the head.
 
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Raptor

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I have the issue of not cumming at times.

Stay rock hard and can keep going till time is out or the SO had enough.

Can be just head or just vag sex or back door.

Never know when it will happen but I can tell you the ladies don’t like it when you don’t cum
 
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themoor

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At the worst times.. all built up to blow.. show up and pound to my hearts content ans still.. leave even more annoyed... in fact waited 3 months to do a double and almost didnt blow .. but then one said,, next time you can fk my ass .. no better time than the present .. sure she wishes she never said it... Great success ..lol
 
gold69

gold69

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Can happen to me often so what I try to do is just distract myself a bit by looking at random shit around the room like a smoke detector or television because If I think to hard about holding or keep too much performance anxiety I'll loose my wood so at least for me it helps very small visual distractions and not to much deep thoughts.
 
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Bricktop

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I think this is a natural occurrence as you get older. This absolutely never happens when you’re young and good health sometimes your dick just gets tired from pounding out for 30+ minutes or the room is too hot (always turn on the AC)
 
BoyOhBaby

BoyOhBaby

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This happens to me more often than I would like. I did some research on it and it is quite common as we get older. And there may be other factors. For me, in addition to being older (65 now) other possible causes are medication which may desensitize nerves, condoms which may be a bit too thick, stress and distractions, and watching too much porn which makes you reliant on visual rather than physical stimulation. And I'm sure there are others, including providers who are just not that good. I don't think any single one of these are the magic answer but all are pulling in the same direction to result in this frustration. Some of these factors are not controllable, like age and some medications. But I try to control what I can. Funny thing is I'm as horny as I've ever been , even at my age, but apparently horniness and ability to finish don't always go hand in hand.
 
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Raptor

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Not glad I’m not the only one it happens to. But it’s nice to hear I’m not the only one if that makes sense!

It’s crazy. I’ll hold out for a week figuring that will make sure it happens with the SO and it still doesn’t happen.

Sometimes I wonder if I’m in my head to much.

I’m in my early fifties. Had the prostrate check had everything checked and all is well. Didn’t start until the last five years. So late 40’s

Don’t get me wrong I’m happy I get rock hard and it feels amazing just don’t get that big release that we all enjoy.

Never mind how it fucks with a ladies head and mine.

Maybe one of members have some advice.
 
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Bricktop

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Raptor said:
Not glad I’m not the only one it happens to. But it’s nice to hear I’m not the only one if that makes sense!

It’s crazy. I’ll hold out for a week figuring that will make sure it happens with the SO and it still doesn’t happen.

Sometimes I wonder if I’m in my head to much.

I’m in my early fifties. Had the prostrate check had everything checked and all is well. Didn’t start until the last five years. So late 40’s

Don’t get me wrong I’m happy I get rock hard and it feels amazing just don’t get that big release that we all enjoy.

Never mind how it fucks with a ladies head and mine.

Maybe one of members have some advice.
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Drink more water cut down on the alcohol
 
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