“* Those who paid GEF price, but asking me Not to do DFK/BBJ/CBJ/Daty/SEX,..... What should I do?!!!! Hug a hour ?!!!
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Going on the obvious assumption that “GEF” is just a fingering error for “GFE.” (Girlfriend Experience)
It sounds like the above quote refers possibly to a lonely soul looking to experience (and pay a premium for) a deeply romantic experience with a pseudo paid-for loving girlfriend and he is willing to pay extra for your efforts and ability to act like it is sincere.
This example refers probably to a guy who requires the emotional support of a woman for an hour or so, where safe-sex is an adjunct to a romantic sexual experience that he desires, that he is hungry for, that is absent from his life. He is simulating having a girlfriend, and quite willing to pay for it.
With respect to your quote and query, “What should I do?!!!! Hug a hour ?!!!
,” he probably isn’t asking you to just robotic-like hug him. He probably wants a very balanced combination of sex in a variety of positions, but more with a sincere, meaningful, caring approach. In other words, a session less akin to a porno shoot, and more akin to a romantic tryst.
He is asking the provider to provide the service that is advertised, taking “girlfriend experience” quite literally, and tailoring it to his own needs.
Seems like he interprets “GFE - Girlfriend Experience,” quite literally, the provider providing an almost authentic award-winning Hollywood loving girlfriend scene together, where she is a paid actress in the role of a loving girlfriend, acting like she is in a committed relationship with the customer.
For some providers, although they advertise GFE, they are incapable of actually mustering up that type of service. It is not really in their repertoire. Although, they do advertise such, based on the morphed-into, pared-down version of GFE. The provider most probably doesn’t understand the origin of the genre and all that it encompasses.
And, oddly enough, other providers, not being paid extra for “GFE,” when suddenly touched in the right way, seem to just automatically blossom into that more tender genre of sexual encounter. (Referring to the tender, loving, hugging, romantic aspect of GFE)
Surely that term, GFE has grown to mean something other than originally intended in its initial debut in the latter 1980’s, early 1990’s. (Hard to pinpoint exactly when it emerged into existence) But, it seems that the original intention of that category of service was for a provider to be paid to act and behave like the guy is her boyfriend and she is actually making sweet love to him, usually without protection.
But, the clients you are referring to that don’t want “DFK/BBJ/CBJ/Daty/SEX,” are willing to pay extra for you to provide the emotional loving aspect of the role play, implied in the original version of GFE, where you are both in a state of heightened awareness and performing the act of “making love.” Yet, the customer is not totally delusional, either. He surely realizes the reality of the situation is that you are not his girlfriend and you are servicing many other customers, and he wants to avoid the possibility of contracting any potential diseases associated with unprotected sex.
So, he curtails and customizes the GFE experiences for practical purposes, giving him a certain level of psychological comfort for his physical wellbeing.
So, yes, you partially answered your own question. He probably wants a lot of hugging and light kissing and condom sex, with you doing your best to open your heart as well as your legs and provide a loving nurturing experience together with him. Which is probably something he longs for, that he is not capable of creating at this juncture in his life for whatever reason with a girlfriend and/or a wife, SO. So, he pays you, contracts you for this purpose, and completes his experience, and goes on with his life, a little more fulfilled, and a little less lonely.
He is asking a professional to break protocol, slow down and be patient and accommodating, and empathetic for his paid-for time-slot and to be given what is literally implied in the name of the service, a girlfriend experience, a surrogate girlfriend.
He desires to pay extra for that true GFE experience because he does not want and need just a standard erotic sexual sensual fantasy experience at the moment. Possibly he is in the midst of a breakup or a divorce. That type of hump and dump is just not what he needs at this moment in his life. So, he calls upon the provider to reach into her catalogue of services and apply her professional ingenuity, and come up with a nice paid-for service custom package for him.
Some providers can pull it off and others can’t.
I guess Lennon and McCartney (Beatles) put it quite succinctly in the title of their song, “Can’t Buy Me Love.”