Pulling out

billyS

Reign of Terror
#1
I was just reading a review of a JAV provider who allowed bbfs but not cip so the guy shot on her stomach.

It reminded me of times when I was warned ahead of time, or that I knew I couldn't cum inside the girl but I was in her raw. This is both in and out of the hobby. It happens out of the hobby mostly when my partner was on BC so we were used to cip, but maybe she missed a few days of the pill or was in between switching methods. With a provider its usually because it goes something like
Me: "do we need a condom"
Her "no, you can just put it in"
Her a few minutes later " but don't nut in me"

Anyway, I find in either situation the anxiety of knowing I have to pull out before I cum heightens the arousal and makes me cum or have that urge much faster than if I was just enjoying raw pussy backed by BC.

Am I alone in this?
Does this happen to anyone else?
 
#5
I have a regular hookup with a legit massage girl who I see outside the spa. I've been going in raw and pulling out for about three years so I'm used to it. Sometimes the timing can be tricky especially when you are getting close. The little head always wants to get those last few good pumps in. So far I've been lucky. It's still much better than a raincoat.
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
#6
I have a regular hookup with a legit massage girl who I see outside the spa. I've been going in raw and pulling out for about three years so I'm used to it. Sometimes the timing can be tricky especially when you are getting close. The little head always wants to get those last few good pumps in. So far I've been lucky. It's still much better than a raincoat.
So no additional anxiousness, not even the first time?
 
#7
I have a breeding fetish. I always love blowing huge loads inside girls. My first hobby experience was open to bbfs but I don’t believe she wanted to CIP. When I did, she seems annoyed at first then realized it wasn’t intentional. After that she wouldn’t let me cum anywhere else but inside her. She would relish feeling me blast inside and would just collapse on top of me with me still inside her. She knew I got off on pregnancy risk and would message me to come see her when she was ovulating.

I never did tell her I had a vasectomy.

I’ve CIP a few others who always ask about baby concerns. I never let on about my vasectomy. But would ask them “can you feel my baby makers racing towards their goal?”

One panicked and pushed me off her to rush and rinse them out.
 
#8
I have a breeding fetish. I always love blowing huge loads inside girls. My first hobby experience was open to bbfs but I don’t believe she wanted to CIP. When I did, she seems annoyed at first then realized it wasn’t intentional. After that she wouldn’t let me cum anywhere else but inside her. She would relish feeling me blast inside and would just collapse on top of me with me still inside her. She knew I got off on pregnancy risk and would message me to come see her when she was ovulating.

I never did tell her I had a vasectomy.

I’ve CIP a few others who always ask about baby concerns. I never let on about my vasectomy. But would ask them “can you feel my baby makers racing towards their goal?”

One panicked and pushed me off her to rush and rinse them out.
Haha...

Yup having down the vasectomy has made life much more relaxed in that sense for myself.
 
#10
No maybe it has to due with my age. 60 is in the rear view mirror I have trouble finishing with a condom these days which is why I prefer a regular raw hookup with a girl who (I think) is only seeing me.
Same here. 60 is in my rear view mirror. I don’t get anxiety because I’m used to retaining my load with the spa girls and saving it for my wife later on or the next day. It actually helps my chronic prostatitis to have more sex but cum less often. I know that’s contrary to what everyone says it actually works for me.

I agree condoms are like kryptonite.


I gather there are two types of spa girls. The ones on steady birth control, and the others that take the morning after pill if a load has been intentionally or accidentally deposited. My regular spa girl started off with “No cum inside” but now after two months of raw, balls deep penetration she lets me emit 4 or 5 little squirts, which the girls universally call “water”. It’s great because it takes the place of lube, and I get to keep a third of my load for later. By the time I’m done fucking her, most of that water has been absorbed. She told me she’s on BC and if I wanted to release the full libation it would be ok.

Also I think some providers don’t want to cum dripping out for the next guest. It’s less of a cleanup for them if they don’t have to douche a load out of their pussy.
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
#11
Same here. 60 is in my rear view mirror. I don’t get anxiety because I’m used to retaining my load with the spa girls and saving it for my wife later on or the next day. It actually helps my chronic prostatitis to have more sex but cum less often. I know that’s contrary to what everyone says it actually works for me.

I agree condoms are like kryptonite.


I gather there are two types of spa girls. The ones on steady birth control, and the others that take the morning after pill if a load has been intentionally or accidentally deposited. My regular spa girl started off with “No cum inside” but now after two months of raw, balls deep penetration she lets me emit 4 or 5 little squirts, which the girls universally call “water”. It’s great because it takes the place of lube, and I get to keep a third of my load for later. By the time I’m done fucking her, most of that water has been absorbed. She told me she’s on BC and if I wanted to release the full libation it would be ok.

Also I think some providers don’t want to cum dripping out for the next guest. It’s less of a cleanup for them if they don’t have to douche a load out of their pussy.
You think they douche the load out of their pussy?
I'm thinking if anything they sit on the toilet and wash their holes with toilet water.

I've seen a few do that back in the nasty days.

It's either that or they just use your cum as lube for the next guy.

Maybe one of our Asian spa guys who constantly dump loads in these JAV girls have an insight to whether or not these girls are cleaning out their pussies between customers.
 
#12
You think they douche the load out of their pussy?
I'm thinking if anything they sit on the toilet and wash their holes with toilet water.

I've seen a few do that back in the nasty days.

It's either that or they just use your cum as lube for the next guy.

Maybe one of our Asian spa guys who constantly dump loads in these JAV girls have an insight to whether or not these girls are cleaning out their pussies between customers.

I have witnessed the few that I have CIP all use a douche or a hose nozzle to rinse.

There was only one that wouldn’t wash herself until the session was over. She used to tell me she loved having my loads inside her.

Honestly this is why I usually make my appointments for early morning. I’m not interested in sloppy seconds. I figure they’re showering at the end of their night then again in the morning before I get there then the shower with me.

But who really knows ….
 
#13
No maybe it has to due with my age. 60 is in the rear view mirror I have trouble finishing with a condom these days which is why I prefer a regular raw hookup with a girl who (I think) is only seeing me.
I don't think age is the issue, even back in my teenager years, if I wore a condom getting to finish line was nearly impossible even if I had gone days without a hookup... even without the condom it takes a while for me, not being a minute man was always to my advantage but funny thing is that some of my girlfriends would want a quickie guess they just wanted to feel the load drop but no such luck, and now that I monger the providers that allow the bbfs, now complain that I take too long ;) that the hhr isn't long enough - NND who was a "timer setter" and was great at what she provided would allow me the extra time being a regular but there were nights that I took a little too long and would have to end my extra "free" time.
 
#14
I have witnessed the few that I have CIP all use a douche or a hose nozzle to rinse.

There was only one that wouldn’t wash herself until the session was over. She used to tell me she loved having my loads inside her.

Honestly this is why I usually make my appointments for early morning. I’m not interested in sloppy seconds. I figure they’re showering at the end of their night then again in the morning before I get there then the shower with me.

But who really knows ….
Me to. I’ve seen them squat down in the shower and using kegels shit the load out of their pussy then take the detachable showerhead and use it to irrigate the sacred chamber. Every woman is different with their own standards of hygiene and work ethic.
 
#16
I was just reading a review of a JAV provider who allowed bbfs but not cip so the guy shot on her stomach.

It reminded me of times when I was warned ahead of time, or that I knew I couldn't cum inside the girl but I was in her raw. This is both in and out of the hobby. It happens out of the hobby mostly when my partner was on BC so we were used to cip, but maybe she missed a few days of the pill or was in between switching methods. With a provider its usually because it goes something like
Me: "do we need a condom"
Her "no, you can just put it in"
Her a few minutes later " but don't nut in me"

Anyway, I find in either situation the anxiety of knowing I have to pull out before I cum heightens the arousal and makes me cum or have that urge much faster than if I was just enjoying raw pussy backed by BC.

Am I alone in this?
Does this happen to anyone else?
As a guy in their middle 40s, I grew up watching porn where the most common finish was to pull out and paint the girls chest or face. I honestly find zero issue doing this, maybe because it's what I grew up watching.
 
#17
As a guy in their middle 40s, I grew up watching porn where the most common finish was to pull out and paint the girls chest or face. I honestly find zero issue doing this, maybe because it's what I grew up watching.

I truly hate pulling out. There is no better feeling than completely emptying my balls deep inside someone.

I have a bit of a breeding fetish so maybe it has something to do with that.

My ultimate ATF realized how much I enjoyed it and would always makes sure I got at least two shots inside her. Even to the point where she’d feel me blow inside her and she’d just kiss me deeply and collapse on top of me while I was still in her, holding every drop insider her.
 
#18
As a guy in their middle 40s, I grew up watching porn where the most common finish was to pull out and paint the girls chest or face. I honestly find zero issue doing this, maybe because it's what I grew up watching.
There is a big difference between porn sex and the sex most guys enjoy. For example if the porn guy came deep in the woman's pussy there would be little the viewer could see (at most maybe when he later pulled out and some cum dripped out.)

This is especially true with BJ's; how would the viewer know if the guy actually came or not if the woman swallowed it all. That why in porn flicks the woman doesn't swallow but either holds the cum in her mouth letting it drip out or perhaps sticking out her tongue showing it covered with cum or the guy pulls out of her mouth and cums on her face.

Porn is made for the pleasure of the viewer and not for the pleasure of the actors, therefore when the guy is about to cum he pulls out and cums all over the woman.
 
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