Here's my list of favorites:
Buon Amici in White Plains
Dominicks, Bronx
Pine Tavern, Bronx
Carmines, Manhattan
Parkside, Corona
King Umberto's, Elmont
Umberto's, New Hyde Park
Filomena's, Franklin Square
Mio Posto, Long Beach
Matteo's, Bellmore
Gino's, Rockville Centre - OK, it's a pizzeria but they have some pasta dishes that I really like and the pizza is good too.