I think the point I’m trying to drive home is that it’s just a bad fucking idea. Wanting a hooker to have your love child is like having an grimy dirty auto mechanic extracting a bad tooth in your mouth. Sure he’s got a pair of pliers. And he might get the job done. But the chances of you in the ER are pretty fucking high afterwards.
Wishful thinking.....Do you really think that your going to buy a hookers faithfulness (and have your love child) with some money and health benefits?
Reality........ Chances Are that she’ll disappear into the jungles of South America . She’ll have the kid. Sell it on the black market for some beer and drugs. And it will be giving the Pokler a Rim job out of some hotel in Islandia 18-19 years from now.
If you think it's such a bad idea then don't follow in my footsteps and seek out the same thing. I'm a grown ass man and I can make my own decisions about how to best achieve the things I want out of life. Maybe we see very different kinds of prostitutes or simply have very different interactions with them, but the kind of behavior pattern you're describing simply isn't common in my experience. I enjoy sex, I've slept with a lot of women and I've even spent time with some women who like you describe are in such dire straights that they can't even so much as think beyond fulfilling their immediate survival needs and fueling their addiction and that's a horribly sad state to see someone in, my heart truly aches for them and I wish them well on the long and hard road to recovery should they be able to get there before their lifestyle destroys them.
But many, many women who work in this profession aren't like that. They're just normal people. They work a job, they try and make ends meet, they have friends, family, sometimes kids, pets, they pay rent, they go grocery shopping, they go out and have fun, they have feelings and aspirations and desires and goals and everything else that contributes to the full human experience because that's what they are, living breathing regular every day people. Is their job unconventional? Yeah of course it is. But even though they're a sexworker they're still every bit as deserving of respect, dignity, happiness, financial stability, good health, love and compassion as you or I. These women aren't beneath you just because they blow you, they're good people and over the years some of them have become truly close and cherished friends of mine. I've been to their homes for coffee, gone out with them to celebrate special occasions in their lives, helped them shop around for a new house, I've sat and listened to them while they're going through challenging times and need support, all of the normal things you would do with a good friend I have done with friends who either are or were sexworkers. I even went to a wedding two years ago for a woman I met while she was a sexworker and I was one of her clients but we stayed in touched even after she got out of the business.
You seem to have this incredibly naïve, childish and incredibly misogynistic view of who sexworkers actually are but I assure you there's so much more to these nuanced and fully fleshed out people than your ignorant assumptions make them out to be. The next time you go see a girl, actually talk to her for a bit and get to know more about her than just the rates she charges for sex; you might surprise yourself and find that you can actually genuinely connect with another human being and that there can be more to this than just a transaction. I guarantee you you'll have infinitely better sex if you do.
Just some food for thought.
There is nothing lame about this post. This is the start of a long journey for us at UG. We’ll have zero proof but I’m sure we will watch what will become a massive dumpster fire of a situation! BUT, I love that SFA is living out a fantasy, whether in reality or just the pages of UG.
So far it's definitely been mostly confined to endless unsuccessful emails and in person conversations that lead nowhere. I'm confident one day I'll find someone who can make this a reality, and when that day comes I'll be sure to keep you interested folks updated with whatever proof the mod team allows me to share.
This is all so irrational yet it could make for an intriguing movie or book. Good luck Sir. I think deep down you just want to a save a woman who’s fallen into this dark line of work and maybe offer her some hope. I think you have some love to give which is admirable. Why don’t you call Jessica and pay her a finders fee? She seems to know lots of wayward young women. Nothing to lose.
That is indeed what I want to do, thanks for the kind words. Who knows, when it is all said and done, I certainly might write a book about my adventure! For now I'll absolutely see if Jessica can be of any help, like you said, nothing to lose!
and to everyone saying to avoid El Salvador, I had done some research the past couple days and came to the same conclusion. As much as I'm sure there's potential to make something happen down there, I don't think risking being hacked to bits by a cartel is worth it. I'll stick to some safer parts of the world for this.