I think my new roommate is a provider!

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Mr.Robinson

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Yes, you are reading the subject right... I think my new room mate might be a provider.
Long story short she's a student here on internship for at least three weeks. But here's the kicker though, she's also a message therapist who does house calls at odd hours, sometimes goes out dressed to the t and doesn't know what time she would be back from the clients place or my favorite, might sleep over there or at a buddy's place cause it's closer to her internship.

Now I won't judge, and maybe she's not an escort per se, but the fact she's going to work late at night dressed to the t(and at 23 degree weather) just to fondle some fat dude (assuming he's fat) and get rid of his stress all night long with her fingers is interesting... Plus she accidentally called/txt msg me a few times with a different phone number and denied it after I told her I might be out of my place doing freelance on site work (gfx artist) and that I got 2 numbers from her. O and it doesn't help she has cans of steel and ass of justice... but a bit thick though.

I don't know what I am asking here, maybe a provider / message person can entertain my suspensions... plus the girl is an awesome cool roomie but she reeks of sexual tension.
 
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Joe Sarno

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Discretion is the better part of valor. Leave it be. You mean "entertain your suspicions"?
Yeah you're probably right. But there is no upside to you asking her about it and especially entertaining a fantasy of some home cooking (if that was on your mind.)
 
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marcinny

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I wonder though whether she would be willing to do anything with a roommate. A provider's opinion is needed here, but the way I see it, a provider would rather not cross that line.

The problem is not a session with you, but how the relationship would be affected by it. She knows you but doesn't know you. Men like to push the limits. She may fear this would compromise her work. You may be the type who wants it every night, afterward. You may get in the way of her work. She knows you but not in a situation like this.

It is in your advantage that she is there only temporary. If she does anything she will certainly not coming back there.

PS. Of course, if I was in your place my fantasies would be running wild. But I am not so, I am more inclined to see it from her perspective and it makes sense to be cautious.
 
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randyBrandy

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You really wanna know? Do this...

Put on a blazer, grab a bottle of red wine and then look around the apartment frantically. Announce "Shit, I'm late!" Look under the bathroom sink and on the highest shelves of the kitchen cabinet. Then, looking sheepish, say to her "I hate to ask but would you happen to have some spare condoms, lube & baby wipes?" You'll have your answer. Ha!
 
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lightweight

lightweight

Moderator
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This could be part of the fun, is the investigation part. You can always follow her. Have someone else call her and ask questions.
 
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TheMac

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If I read your post right, she'll only be around for a few weeks. That's a different situation than a long-term roommate. I'd ask her for a massage and play it by ear.
 
billyS

billyS

Reign of Terror
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I would just ask her in a playful tone, 'So what kind of massages do you give?' and then just try to gauge her reaction.
If you're lucky she might say, 'Strip down and go lay on the bed and I'll show you'.
 
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ralphpal

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Lets things flow it would work out better in the long run. It also just could be wishful thinking cause she looks hot. But thats a great roommate and millions of guys would change places with you in a sec
 
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Joe Sarno

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ralphpal said:
Lets things flow it would work out better in the long run. It also just could be wishful thinking cause she looks hot. But thats a great roommate and millions of guys would change places with you in a sec
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Perhaps I'm taking this a little seriously (not the first time!) but am I alone in thinking that it's a very bad idea to ask your roommate for sex or to even hint at it?
 
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