Off topic, anyone ever have any luck with Ashley mad?? Had a female friend tell me about this site last week, she's had numerous affairs on this site but then again it's easier for her because she's a female lol, I recently signed up but haven't brought any credits. Figure it's better then spending $$ on sa chics and married and involved chics have alot to lose like me.
Here is my take on AM, I experimented with it more than 10 years ago and now recently.
Years ago, I had a few matches on the site, met one average looking Polish chick at the restaurant over the skating rink for drinks, she was down to party and we disccused hanging out, doing coke together and fucking, but she worked a weird hours at a hotel like nightime and weekends and was always working so it never happened.
While I have had success on SB sites, there is something exciting about having an affair where both parties are sneaking around....and who doesn't like free sex...Off the profile that have photos if it looks TGTBT it is....They either looking for cyber relationship, sell photos, webcam, or some other scams...I avoided the ones with photos that looked too hot...I also set up a filter only those that were looking for in person and excluded cyber...Most of the profiles did not have any photos or had secret photos that they need to unlock, I would say there might be a lot of fake profiles but a lot of real ones too, I would say the ones that have actual text in their profile were maybe the real ones there were tons of profile with no photos or any text in the profile, just race, age, height, etc. The shotgun approach gets very costly because the goal of the site is for you to burn through credits...Same business model as secret benefit, but its harder to sniff out which profiles are fake...I mean the women don't really have to put up photos they getting like hundreds of messages a day without photos....
So I send out a bunch to see if I could get anything real...Be careful and disable the autorefill or credits or you can spend hundreds or thousands without even realizing it...Probably got a few replies back, some were real but when I saw the photos they were either very overweight or homely looking, not interested...Found 1 white milf who was not bad looking, and we seemed to vibe, but she wanted to meet up for most of the day weekdays like 6 hours during the week, not able to do that...Matched with a chinese girl who seemed very interested but refused to send me a photo cause it "wasn't safe" and then she saw a photo of me with a beard, said she doesn't like facial hair so that was the end of that...So yes it is very possible to meet someone you just need to invest a shit ton of time and cash to find the needle in the haystack...
Another complication meeting up with married women is coordinating schedules, they can only get out at certain times and if it doesn't mesh with your schedule you SOL. Sugar babies much easier in that regard, you can tell them when/where to meet at your convenience.
Also tried Fling.com most of the profiles are pushing for you to spend money on webcam BS, that site is complete trash don't bother with that one.