If you could give just one piece of advice to a newbie, what would it be?
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Keep ALL personal info hidden or to yourself,
Drivers License, Registration, Insurance, Credit Cards, License.
and rule number 2.....
"Keep your family and business completely separated, significant others and side pieces "don't mix like 2 dicks and no bitch!" - NOTORIOUS B.I.G. GREATEST OF ALL TIME!
Drivers License, Registration, Insurance, Credit Cards, License.
and rule number 2.....
"Keep your family and business completely separated, significant others and side pieces "don't mix like 2 dicks and no bitch!" - NOTORIOUS B.I.G. GREATEST OF ALL TIME!
Can't argue with your forethought.
But the time alone, those years before "the shit hits the fan," living with your own dedicated sweet, cute, little "piece of ass," that is yours to fuck twelve times a day, that knows only you, and you know only her, is a cherished time and also cannot be understated. Because, your frequent trips to the local AMP's, is all but a way to compensate and simulate that lost cherished loving feeling between two people that fit extremely well together. And, to find that warm, fuzzy, completeness experience again, starts the endless search with no complete satisfaction, from county to county, state to state, country to country.
So, so true, when those kids come, the intimacy certainly dwindles and gets diluted and expanded into the family unit. But, if I were young again and had to relive that unbearably intense moment again that wreaked of losing the best "sex toy" that I ever had, when she diverted her intensity from being my "sex slave" to her new role of "MOTHER/wife," (and "MOTHER" is in all caps and "wife" is in lower case to show the new order of importance) I would try to be more mature about it, and not view it as "treason." Try and see it as the natural order of things.
Probably would still end up in the local whorehouse, but not living the life of a wild, insane, unsatiated, savage, uncontrolled monster of a monger.
Because, plenty of married people still have plenty of sex. It is just that the intensity and dedication to sex has dwindled, but the love and commitment is still there and even moreso. If you can just back off a couple of inches and be able to deal with some loss of intimacy, and try to be a human being, you might be able to pull it off.
But, it is not easy, because what makes a monger, a monger is his desire for VARIETY. We desire everything from just north of "barely legal," to GILF'S with one foot in the grave. How can such a mind ever be satisfied, and how can a struggling "MOTHER/wife" have the capacity to understand that psyche?
Some guys adapt well to the changes in the marriage and are able to carry on with her new lowered sexual capacity, and others revolt and become "THE FUGITIVE."
But the time alone, those years before "the shit hits the fan," living with your own dedicated sweet, cute, little "piece of ass," that is yours to fuck twelve times a day, that knows only you, and you know only her, is a cherished time and also cannot be understated. Because, your frequent trips to the local AMP's, is all but a way to compensate and simulate that lost cherished loving feeling between two people that fit extremely well together. And, to find that warm, fuzzy, completeness experience again, starts the endless search with no complete satisfaction, from county to county, state to state, country to country.
So, so true, when those kids come, the intimacy certainly dwindles and gets diluted and expanded into the family unit. But, if I were young again and had to relive that unbearably intense moment again that wreaked of losing the best "sex toy" that I ever had, when she diverted her intensity from being my "sex slave" to her new role of "MOTHER/wife," (and "MOTHER" is in all caps and "wife" is in lower case to show the new order of importance) I would try to be more mature about it, and not view it as "treason." Try and see it as the natural order of things.
Probably would still end up in the local whorehouse, but not living the life of a wild, insane, unsatiated, savage, uncontrolled monster of a monger.
Because, plenty of married people still have plenty of sex. It is just that the intensity and dedication to sex has dwindled, but the love and commitment is still there and even moreso. If you can just back off a couple of inches and be able to deal with some loss of intimacy, and try to be a human being, you might be able to pull it off.
But, it is not easy, because what makes a monger, a monger is his desire for VARIETY. We desire everything from just north of "barely legal," to GILF'S with one foot in the grave. How can such a mind ever be satisfied, and how can a struggling "MOTHER/wife" have the capacity to understand that psyche?
Some guys adapt well to the changes in the marriage and are able to carry on with her new lowered sexual capacity, and others revolt and become "THE FUGITIVE."
One piece of advice to a newbie…
For the Best possible experience , you need to be generous and nice.!.!.!
You’ll get a mix of both bad and good experiences regardless. But if you come in with a smile on your face and you don’t haggle them down in price, they’ll fuck your brains out. Because they want you coming back.
And!! Important!! For you’re best experience possible. Try to be a providers first or second customer of the day!! After they’ve been on their backs for 6-7 hours, providers just want to get you out as soon as possible. If you get to her nice and early, she’ll probably be in the mood. And combine that with you being generous and nice. You can’t lose.
For the Best possible experience , you need to be generous and nice.!.!.!
You’ll get a mix of both bad and good experiences regardless. But if you come in with a smile on your face and you don’t haggle them down in price, they’ll fuck your brains out. Because they want you coming back.
And!! Important!! For you’re best experience possible. Try to be a providers first or second customer of the day!! After they’ve been on their backs for 6-7 hours, providers just want to get you out as soon as possible. If you get to her nice and early, she’ll probably be in the mood. And combine that with you being generous and nice. You can’t lose.
Not a bad thing.... however, the situation that I am now in is a separation of spousal enjoyment, no human contact from her, we are roommates that share a bed, and an enjoyable family life experiences. But a dead-bedroom is not the way my body/mind is willing to accept, unfortunately she has made the conscience decision to not try and fix and has left me to have to search for human touch outside of the marriage. Prior to the dead-bedroom, and I did hold out for almost 3 years of begging/pleading and multiple other efforts before resorting to escort services, I was guilty of looking and holding onto the memory for spank-bank wants and needs, but never pursued violating the marriage vows. My family is still important and I want to maintain the family for my kids and extended family sake. Escorts are my pressure release valve.
Kudos to you, @Monty_monty. Keep on taking care of that family unit because that is how you will be remembered.Those kids are worth more than anything that could be found on this earth, as well as their mother. Keep the love vibrant and alive in the house even without the sex.
Unfortunately you (we) have lost one of the perks (sex) of marriage. And, if the SO can live wthout it and you (we) can't, we do have a pretty good reason for fetching it on the outside. It "sort of" ("sort of") gives one a semi-clear conscience to monger a bit. (although, in the mongering department, I have found a way a long time ago to have my conscience "not speak, unless spoken to.")
"Hope springs eternal." On a few occasions, after a drought too long to mention without crying, I could have made a move on my SO, but backed down. A fear arose within me. Its been so long. She already achieved her freedom from me as my sexual servant. Her body has been returned back to her, and I believe she likes being the sole owner of it. If it was her desire and need, of course I would gladly oblige and enjoy it.
Unfortunately you (we) have lost one of the perks (sex) of marriage. And, if the SO can live wthout it and you (we) can't, we do have a pretty good reason for fetching it on the outside. It "sort of" ("sort of") gives one a semi-clear conscience to monger a bit. (although, in the mongering department, I have found a way a long time ago to have my conscience "not speak, unless spoken to.")
"Hope springs eternal." On a few occasions, after a drought too long to mention without crying, I could have made a move on my SO, but backed down. A fear arose within me. Its been so long. She already achieved her freedom from me as my sexual servant. Her body has been returned back to her, and I believe she likes being the sole owner of it. If it was her desire and need, of course I would gladly oblige and enjoy it.
Some random things, applicable mainly to AMP's but elsewhere too:
Older and/or less attractive providers often give better service than the young hotties.
Do not speak loudly let alone shout if the provider has trouble understanding you. It won't make it any easier for her to understand you, but it will annoy the hell out of any other mongers in the establishment.
If the provider offers a table shower always take it no matter how recently you've showered. Providers often will provide more if they're sure you are clean.
Using the information on this site, have some basic understanding of what services are associated with what entry fees. For example, if an AMP's entry fee is 40 for an hour, it is unlikely you will get any extras. Sure, from time to time that will happen, but do not count on it.
Related to the above, if you're most of the way through your session, everything's been legit so far, and the provider asks if you want extra time (for extra $, of course), taking the extra time will almost certainly *not* get you any extras.
Finally, and most importantly:
If you get any sense that things aren't as they should be, something that just doesn't seem right, turn around and leave. Always trust your instincts, even if you can't articulate exactly what seems off.
Older and/or less attractive providers often give better service than the young hotties.
Do not speak loudly let alone shout if the provider has trouble understanding you. It won't make it any easier for her to understand you, but it will annoy the hell out of any other mongers in the establishment.
If the provider offers a table shower always take it no matter how recently you've showered. Providers often will provide more if they're sure you are clean.
Using the information on this site, have some basic understanding of what services are associated with what entry fees. For example, if an AMP's entry fee is 40 for an hour, it is unlikely you will get any extras. Sure, from time to time that will happen, but do not count on it.
Related to the above, if you're most of the way through your session, everything's been legit so far, and the provider asks if you want extra time (for extra $, of course), taking the extra time will almost certainly *not* get you any extras.
Finally, and most importantly:
If you get any sense that things aren't as they should be, something that just doesn't seem right, turn around and leave. Always trust your instincts, even if you can't articulate exactly what seems off.
In my approximately 100 encounters over the last 6 years, mostly NOT repeats and mostly TOFTTs, I have never had any significant issues.
The worst incident may have been the one who got a call from the front desk after 3 minutes in and she said they've asked her to leave. She barely had her hands on me and decided to keep about 40% of what I left for her, saying she'd give me a discount if I followed up on her later. Didn't bother as she wasn't particularly attractive.
I've only had a couple where I went to the address and then silence.
Perhaps my "success" is because I prefer older women (35+) and they're typically not the scammers.
The worst incident may have been the one who got a call from the front desk after 3 minutes in and she said they've asked her to leave. She barely had her hands on me and decided to keep about 40% of what I left for her, saying she'd give me a discount if I followed up on her later. Didn't bother as she wasn't particularly attractive.
I've only had a couple where I went to the address and then silence.
Perhaps my "success" is because I prefer older women (35+) and they're typically not the scammers.
When/If seeking out a higher end companion who advertises on multiple bonafide sites and has their own webpage and appears to be well established…
DO YOUR RESEARCH
Perusing this particular gal ( out west) who has good reviews and multiple ads, pictures etc…. Was about that close () to setting appointment with her only to find her latest picture on an alternate site. All I could say was YIKES.. Her website/pictures were plus 10 years old and 30/40 lbs ago..She was careless enough to post a recent pic which did her no justice
Some may not care- Their game is to bust a nut any any cost.. I like to ensure I am getting what is advertised
DO YOUR RESEARCH
Perusing this particular gal ( out west) who has good reviews and multiple ads, pictures etc…. Was about that close () to setting appointment with her only to find her latest picture on an alternate site. All I could say was YIKES.. Her website/pictures were plus 10 years old and 30/40 lbs ago..She was careless enough to post a recent pic which did her no justice
Some may not care- Their game is to bust a nut any any cost.. I like to ensure I am getting what is advertised