HOW DO YOU PAY FOR/AFFORD THIS HOBBY?

Camant1997

The next time I whine will be my last
#21
Hello everyone happy new year . This habit it’s an expensive one once you get hooked on it and can also cause you financial difficulties. I been doing this since my early 20s now I’m in my 40s I a bit calm now lol. But back in my days since most of us at that age are very horny I used to be broke most times cause of mongering. Sometimes I didn’t have cash so I used to get cash advance on credit card. and if I had money for my bills and I was itchy for some puss I would take from my money I had for my bills then I would be in trouble not having for my bills . But one good thing to have for this hobby is if you got like extra work or an extra job . That helps a lot if you don’t and as long as you dint have so much debt I think it should be ok or if you make enough money with one job . I have an extra job and it helps me enjoy in the month at least 3 times at a fast house or amp if it’s an amp once a month Amps are 100$ plus fast houses are an average of 40 -60 depending? But yea that’s my share of this blog. It helps to keep your mind busy if you trying to cut down on mongering. Cheers people.
I feel you on that but I feel with a fast house you dont get the quality then if you would to go a step above in pricing. I think we all set out limits but sometimes from what i been feeling the quality paid for 1 is better than going for the cheap way 3 times. But then the mentality is also 3 times is better than 1 so now it leaves one confused lol
 
#22
Lots of good planning on this thread.

For a number of years, I managed the way others have (moderation, priorities, etc.) My particular situation for the last five years has spared me major living expenses and also precluded vacations and a significant other. Without a SO, I haven’t had to conceal the expenditures. I justified my overly frequent activity as a way of dealing with stress and keeping myself sane. But it's no longer sustainable and I've come to look at it as more of an addiction. I need to come to terms with reality however exasperating, sad and depressing it is. Perhaps this should be in the "How do you guys stop?" thread but the two are interconnected. Sorry for the downer.
 
#23
Lots of good planning on this thread.

For a number of years, I managed the way others have (moderation, priorities, etc.) My particular situation for the last five years has spared me major living expenses and also precluded vacations and a significant other. Without a SO, I haven’t had to conceal the expenditures. I justified my overly frequent activity as a way of dealing with stress and keeping myself sane. But it's no longer sustainable and I've come to look at it as more of an addiction. I need to come to terms with reality however exasperating, sad and depressing it is. Perhaps this should be in the "How do you guys stop?" thread but the two are interconnected. Sorry for the downer.
Hang in there. An addiction is merely a habit. As soon as you recognize it, its days are numbered. Nothing has the adhesive power to stick to you forever. In a powerful moment you can find yourself to be bigger than the habit and then you maneuver it as a hobby again for nostalgia's sake.
 
#24
Hang in there. An addiction is merely a habit. As soon as you recognize it, its days are numbered. Nothing has the adhesive power to stick to you forever. In a powerful moment you can find yourself to be bigger than the habit and then you maneuver it as a hobby again for nostalgia's sake.
Thanks, Mugi, you made some good points earlier about things one can do instead of seeing a provider when one feels sub-optimal. They're akin to the principle of paying yourself first. There are moments when I'll say to myself "You don't absolutely have to go." Since I'm reassured that I'm not truly addicted, I then go.

Given our current surveillance society, this will sound like madness but then I don't have a SO. I use the timeline feature in Google Maps to track my activities. (Apple also has Significant Places.) I can see very clearly the number of visits I've paid to particular spas. Google and Waze have suggested a favorite spa as my workplace.
 
#25
I feel you on that but I feel with a fast house you dont get the quality then if you would to go a step above in pricing. I think we all set out limits but sometimes from what i been feeling the quality paid for 1 is better than going for the cheap way 3 times. But then the mentality is also 3 times is better than 1 so now it leaves one confused lol
yes my friend you are absolutely right fast houses are always a hit or miss but yes there’s been times when I had paid up to 200-300 for an hour for top quality but you be done in about 25 min then I be like dam I just spent 300 dollars on pussy ‍♂️‍♂️. And most wont let you go for a second round even at my age one round it’s enough I need at least 30 or more to recharge. ‍♂️ For example last time I spent 250$ on this spot by 72 st west side Manhattan they had 3 very pretty young supposedly college girls around 20 ish .but was worth it every penny but was done in like 20 min cause few things banging body pretty face just lovely tight pussy dam all that you won’t last an hour it’s too good!! So I was like dam 250 gone like that then next weekend I was tight on money could have fun for a few weeks . Fast house I’ve found this was around September in queens 79st garage a very gorgeous Colombian I was like dam every one wanted that so I went in ticket it’s 40 15 min she was nice with me extended it for another 40 and got a bbj for an extra 30 110 for about 30 mins of fun in my opinion not bad and left with a big smile I think I made her cum to cause she was wet white creamy pussy . so it depends on a few things as far as money it’s money and either way this hobby of ours it’s an expensive one . It’s comes with disappointment depending on the girls rushing a of things. Gotta control ourselfs guys sometimes i haven’t been horny but it’s the curiosity or tempted that has made me go and I don’t perform good ‍♂️‍♂️ Don’t know lol .
 

Camant1997

The next time I whine will be my last
#27
yes my friend you are absolutely right fast houses are always a hit or miss but yes there’s been times when I had paid up to 200-300 for an hour for top quality but you be done in about 25 min then I be like dam I just spent 300 dollars on pussy ‍♂️‍♂️. And most wont let you go for a second round even at my age one round it’s enough I need at least 30 or more to recharge. ‍♂️ For example last time I spent 250$ on this spot by 72 st west side Manhattan they had 3 very pretty young supposedly college girls around 20 ish .but was worth it every penny but was done in like 20 min cause few things banging body pretty face just lovely tight pussy dam all that you won’t last an hour it’s too good!! So I was like dam 250 gone like that then next weekend I was tight on money could have fun for a few weeks . Fast house I’ve found this was around September in queens 79st garage a very gorgeous Colombian I was like dam every one wanted that so I went in ticket it’s 40 15 min she was nice with me extended it for another 40 and got a bbj for an extra 30 110 for about 30 mins of fun in my opinion not bad and left with a big smile I think I made her cum to cause she was wet white creamy pussy . so it depends on a few things as far as money it’s money and either way this hobby of ours it’s an expensive one . It’s comes with disappointment depending on the girls rushing a of things. Gotta control ourselfs guys sometimes i haven’t been horny but it’s the curiosity or tempted that has made me go and I don’t perform good ‍♂️‍♂️ Don’t know lol .
Your last part is spot on bro. I might be drained out but I cant get off the sites and when it comes to the find, I'm all in, get to the show and I'm a fish out of water with no release, embarrassing. But could be one or two things, either lackluster service or just not into it when its showtime. This can get real pricey and controlling it for me lately has been hard. I've scaled it down to once a week to twice a week for the past month but I'm paying for a step above the 100 range. Better results but leaves me dry for a week.
 
#28
I've always been a cash-in-pocket guy - I have a budgeted amount that I take out as walking around cash, so it's expected. I stash some of that cash away in another place just for discreet use (women, weed, the occasional wager, etc.). So basically, I pay for whores with my lunch money.
 
#29
I've paid for it with hard earned money like most. Some of those girls that want 6 roses seem enticing via the photos they post, but it is the same gamble with service and attitude.
 
#30
bitcoin. In April of 2013, during one of the early bitcoin rallies, it hit like $210 per coin. I read the satoshi whitepaper and was fascinated by it. Everyone thought I was insane when I plunked down $50K and bought 238 of the fuckers. Then the price dropped to $70 like 10 days later and I was like FUCK, I'm an IDIOT! So I did what any good idiot would do and bought more. Lets just say I evened it out at around 500 coins. Yep, I was a super idiot. Then I sort of forgot about it, and life moved on. Color me surprised in November of 2017 when I overhear someone talking about them, and sure enough they were like $10K each. MFW when in December they hit $19K. Who's the idiot now! Still me, because I only sold 50 of them at 18500. 60% of that money (saved the rest for taxes) went into a South Dakota Trust. I invested it in some REITS and draw down from the earnings or dividends for sugar and mongering. Now don't get me wrong, my BTC is still good, and I use it for Sugar and monger when I find a provider or girl who will take it. A few times I've banged 10/10 instagram influencers, one porn star, several reality tv "stars" (those real world girls are fire!) and a B-list actress who's name you'd know, by offering them like 1/2 a bitcoin or something, which to me, is like $170. LOLZ!
 
#31
Keep it simple; keep it affordable. Even billionaires like the cheap common girls. (Robert Kraft comes to mind) There are PLENTY of "diamonds in the rough" and you walk away just as satisfied and can still afford lunch. Oftentimes the rich, pampered beauty lacks the primal sex urge of a Plain Jane who will do anything to please you. See through the illusion of the fancy apartment and the Victoria's Secret matching bra and panties. Once she disrobes and dims the lights, all the pomp and circumstance vanishes and it comes down to the chemistry between you two. You can't buy chemistry.
 
#32
Keep it simple; keep it affordable. Even billionaires like the cheap common girls. (Robert Kraft comes to mind) There are PLENTY of "diamonds in the rough" and you walk away just as satisfied and can still afford lunch. Oftentimes the rich, pampered beauty lacks the primal sex urge of a Plain Jane who will do anything to please you. See through the illusion of the fancy apartment and the Victoria's Secret matching bra and panties. Once she disrobes and dims the lights, all the pomp and circumstance vanishes and it comes down to the chemistry between you two. You can't buy chemistry.
I totally agree the plain Jane Liberian types are most overlooked but when given the chance they will give you what you are graven for. When I was in the Navy my buddies would go for the hottiies get shot down then buy a provider while I would go for the lesser and spend all night with night her have her make breakfast and then a another round or two before I have to head back to the ship...If she was really good I would keep her for my duration while inport
 

pokler

Power Bottom
#33
Keep it simple; keep it affordable. Even billionaires like the cheap common girls. (Robert Kraft comes to mind) There are PLENTY of "diamonds in the rough" and you walk away just as satisfied and can still afford lunch. Oftentimes the rich, pampered beauty lacks the primal sex urge of a Plain Jane who will do anything to please you. See through the illusion of the fancy apartment and the Victoria's Secret matching bra and panties. Once she disrobes and dims the lights, all the pomp and circumstance vanishes and it comes down to the chemistry between you two. You can't buy chemistry.
Brilliant ! Just fuckn brilliant !
 
#34
Keep it simple; keep it affordable. Even billionaires like the cheap common girls. (Robert Kraft comes to mind) There are PLENTY of "diamonds in the rough" and you walk away just as satisfied and can still afford lunch. Oftentimes the rich, pampered beauty lacks the primal sex urge of a Plain Jane who will do anything to please you. See through the illusion of the fancy apartment and the Victoria's Secret matching bra and panties. Once she disrobes and dims the lights, all the pomp and circumstance vanishes and it comes down to the chemistry between you two. You can't buy chemistry.
Doesn't even need to just be a plain jane. As the plastic surgeried and makeup so thick it needs a paint stripper to come off just doesn't turn me on. So the overpriced woman I'll let other have easily. There's enough other woman who get me hard just looking at them. And yes if the lights are off (which I don't like) like what are we even talking about.
 

Camant1997

The next time I whine will be my last
#35
I've been feeling the all natural type of provider. Nothing enhanced. As I had experienced the fake boobs and ass I'm not impressed. I feel like once I get it I'm trying to get over it real quick. But when I have a "plain Jane provider " I feel like I make my half hour worth wild and get more out if it. And for that I'm having a hard time to slow it down. As I write this in planning my next move but i cant find anything worth me going for this week.
 
#36
How I pay is a two answers.
1) If it is with a provider I meet from an ad or a sw or massage place I pay with cash.
2) If it is with a SB I place them in an apartment for free( which I own) and buy sexy lingerie that I want to see them in.
As for I can afford this lifestyle I own a few residential houses and apartments plus a normal day job...I do not have to hide my money as my wife knows all about my lifestyle but that is another story..
What happens when it’s time for them go? Do the go willingly?
 
#37
What happens when it’s time for them go? Do the go willingly?
This is all discussed ahead of time when the relationship has ran its course they have two options One is that they can start paying market value rent or they have a month to find another place to live. I give them that long cause after all feel that it is good thing to do and to nice. Now if they do something that that causes to end the relationship in a negative way they are out in a week...
 
#38
This is all discussed ahead of time when the relationship has ran its course they have two options One is that they can start paying market value rent or they have a month to find another place to live. I give them that long cause after all feel that it is good thing to do and to nice. Now if they do something that that causes to end the relationship in a negative way they are out in a week...
How many cycles have you gone through like this?
What is the shortest and longest they’ve stayed?
What if they refuse to leave?
How do you evict them without a lease?
I’ve often thought it would be cheaper to buy a condo, put a SB up for free using the monger money to pay off the mortgage, and when they leave... I still have the condo, the equity and a place for the next SB.
That’s what the Playboy mansion was if you think about it; lots of girls living under one roof, always available for him, etc.
 
#39
I pay cash only.
I have deferred comp which has been accumulating over 25yrs. As it vests I take it out for fun $. Yes huge taxes but my only resource.
I got whacked on that big time by NYS. If I come back with the same compulsions in another life, I’ll set up residency in a tax friendlier state before taking out the funds.
 
#40
Keep it simple; keep it affordable. Even billionaires like the cheap common girls. (Robert Kraft comes to mind) There are PLENTY of "diamonds in the rough" and you walk away just as satisfied and can still afford lunch. Oftentimes the rich, pampered beauty lacks the primal sex urge of a Plain Jane who will do anything to please you. See through the illusion of the fancy apartment and the Victoria's Secret matching bra and panties. Once she disrobes and dims the lights, all the pomp and circumstance vanishes and it comes down to the chemistry between you two. You can't buy chemistry.
As long as she’s clean, groomed and reasonably firm, I’m off to a good start. I give them the BF experience, don’t expect everything on the first visit and get super experiences with no limits that I care about. I do tip higher than I may absolutely need to but I think the value is there. Most of the girls I see have some augmentation, it’s hard to totally avoid that. I have two regulars with very large fake tits that they somehow pull off. Guess there’s an art to wearing them. For me, it’s a visual turn-on when I massage them from above with oil. I can’t be certain but I suspect they have diminished sensitivity when I play with them. On the age side, I like them anywhere between their late twenties and early forties. That’s group I’ve liked all of my life. Many would call them MILFs which makes me laugh since our perspective changes as we grow older. They’re all significantly younger than me and I don’t suffer from Elvis’s hangup about having sex with a woman who has given birth. It’s not so much what they look like (although that matters) as who they are and what they do.
 
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