Sorry to hear about the troubles, feel bad about my report now. I've had nothing but luck with her.
On a general note, and not sure this is allowed, I have noticed that most of the experiences I have had since commencing my mongering have been shady - from sketchy addresses to sketchy ladies. Some have been really good, but most are a little sketchy.
I guess that is a part of the rush for me. I've had four hands massage with prostate massage in Bellmore, to GFE in Manhattan, rub and tugs in Hicksville, to full F and S in Hicksville, prostate and massage in Massapequa to smelly doggy in East Meadow. I've been jumped by transgender chicks in Bethpage on a bait and switch, and stumbled into complete GFE's in a rub and tug in Patchogue, and, it's all good.
For me, it's not really about getting laid - It's about connecting, and that doesn't happen often.
But sometimes it does. I'm a lonely cat, and making a connection can be great. I've had girls over at my apartment for days, cooked for them, hung out, and usually, they're fucked up - some kind of childhood trauma, usually some type of addiction. Pretty much like the rest of us, just a little worse.
And always, it's about the money. I usually work them for a reduction, then tip them up to their original price - it's really not a big deal to me. I make decent money and appreciate their time and treat them well when they treat me well.
I should clarify though, I'm a decent looking lad, tall and lean, look younger than I am (look mid forties, about 15% body fat). I like to take the hour, talk for a few, then get a massage or something leading up to sex. Often I get ripped off - quick and dirty, peremptory BJ, then sex, out in half an hour or less and I feel ripped off. Americana has been the most egregious with respect to getting ripped off on time, the Asian agencies.
For Rub and tugs, I expect nothing and am just really nice to the girls. I hate negotiating, but when they start to negotiate, I know F&S is available. Otherwise, it's typically a happy ending for $40 tip, no negotiation. But, if it's good, I want to acknowledge it was good and will tip $4o, I want to be remembered and get good service when I come back - I have distinctive tattoos so I think they do remember me. Twenty is fine, but for an extra $20, total of $40, I ensure nice treatment the next time I show.
Ultimately, I probably did overpay Justina/Jessi at $250. But, she treats me well and returns my texts, and that is what matters to me.
I try to treat them like people and not just whores, and maybe that's fucked up, but it's just how I roll. I apologize if it fucks up the market, and will listen to any advice.
I really appreciate this community.