As I age into my upper 40s, I'm finding the opposite of what I expected in terms of stamina, that is, instead of being able to last as long as I'd like, I am an embarrassingly premature ejaculator, to the point that I can't be inside a woman for even a minute before exploding, helpless. I believe it's largely psychological now, but it's still very distressing and embarrassing. Even with HJs and BJs, where it would take a lot of work to get me even close to coming in the old days, I now am very quick to let go. I was recently with a new woman for the first time, one I've been seeing for a month or so, and I made the mistake of buying extra-thin Trojans. It felt all too good the moment I was inside her, and then the inevitable onrush of sensation that I simply can no longer control.
I've tried China Brush numbing cream, which actually worked (too well), but it also gave me a very uncomfortable sensation in the tip of my penis before and after that has dissuaded me from using it again.
So, any suggestions that can get me past this? Kegel exercises? Meditation? I'm desperate to control my orgasms, but at the moment they're controlling me.
I've tried China Brush numbing cream, which actually worked (too well), but it also gave me a very uncomfortable sensation in the tip of my penis before and after that has dissuaded me from using it again.
So, any suggestions that can get me past this? Kegel exercises? Meditation? I'm desperate to control my orgasms, but at the moment they're controlling me.